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It seems like we're always looking for brain-dead simple ways to make sure we ace that all-important first meeting, right?
Well, as always, you should definitely focus on HER comfort instead of worrying about whether YOU are going to mess up or not.
And yes...instead of concerning yourself whether to hug her or shake her hand when you first greet her, you can simply do neither. Just motion for her to join you at the table or wherever.
Above all, get her to talk about herself and skip bragging to her about your car, boat, job and/or karate trophies.
We've covered all of those ideas before, though...in detail.
But here's a way to make your first dates more successful that's so easy you don't even have to DO anything:
That's it. Have fun out there tonight, gentlemen.
Wait a minute. What's that you say? You need to know WHY you should wear a blue shirt?
OK...far be it from me to leave you hanging. Here's the explanation.
Despite how your grandmother may have told you that wearing blue "brings your eyes out" if you happen to have blue eyes, that's not really it.
The real answer to why you should wear a blue shirt on dates is best demonstrated by visiting the airport, of all places.
Take a look at the parade of 737s and A320s waiting to take off and/or parked at the gates.
What's the predominant color you see?
Right on...it's BLUE.
Just about every airline's management team realizes that blue is the best color to paint a commercial jet.
Over the years, most airlines have had blue planes. And those who didn't in the past have overwhelmingly changed their color schemes accordingly.
In the US alone pre-merger United, US Airways, TWA, Continental and even the mighty Southwest all come to mind as companies who made the switch during their respective histories.
Heck, there's even an airline named "JetBlue".
Why the hoopla? Is it because their airplanes fly in the "great blue yonder"?
Hardly.
It's because science has discovered and confirmed the psychological effect the color blue has on the human psyche.
As it turns out, blue promotes feelings of calmness, tranquility and safety in airline passengers.
What better feelings to give airline passengers...or women who are on a first date with you...than those?
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