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And no kidding, for the most part it ROCKS when that happens.
However, with success comes responsibility, even when it comes to dating and relationships.
A very real part of that responsibility includes knowing how to handle the simple fact that the vast majority of other guys on this planet will NOT be as fortunate as you are (at least not yet).
Actually, the hard truth is that most will NEVER find real success with women (let alone the sexual success I talked about above).
As it turns out, some of the very same reasons for that will also present themselves in the form of majorly awkward social situations for you. Go figure.
Most guys aren't really ready for how other, more frustrated guys will react the first time they find a truly amazing girlfriend, so they get blindsided.
But as a man who's already got the upper hand in the form of that beautiful woman by your side who other men desire, you'd do well to know how to handle such scenarios with grace and class.
Here, then, are my five best tips for you when dealing with other guys. And make no mistake about it, you can fully expect any or ALL of the following situations to rear their ugly heads at some point or another:
1) Keep It All On The "Down-Low"
One thing I can assure you of without any reservation is that when you get yourself a truly hot, sexy, amazing girlfriend other dudes WILL notice.
You need not do anything at all to help bring it to their attention.
So don't. You'll only look like a douche if you resort to bragging about her.
Besides, if you keep it cool you're MUCH more likely to portray yourself as a guy who considers himself "in the same league" as she is, which is always a good idea.
Bragging only makes it look like you see "landing her" as some sort of major coup.
2) But On The Other Hand, Don't Make Excuses Or Minimize Her Either
Never mind the fact she'll probably even LIKE you more.
When all of that's the case, other guys will be able to sense the mutual respect between you.
Then, as if by magic, the incidence of silly, immature comments will tend to decrease dramatically.
It's as if other guys sense that if they make some snide remark about either you or her that SHE'LL be the one who chimes in to shut them down.
Knowing how much guys fear rejection and embarrassment at the hands of anyone female, you can see how that social dynamic would work to your advantage.
Yet, for some reason many of us have been taught that beautiful women need to be "knocked off their pedestal", so we make fun of them or neglect them sometimes--even in front of our friends, and even when we're in a relationship with them.
Believe me when I tell you that's a piss-poor strategy. She's HUMAN, and treating her like that will only create resentment on her part.
And if any dude who's jealous of you senses that resentment in her, he's going to play upon that like a cheap fiddle. That will NOT work to your advantage.
3) Don't Rub It In
Another great way to look like a d-bag is to go on and on about how your friends are still dateless, or that their women aren't as hot as yours.
Your buddies already know it if they haven't done as well as you.
Worse, they know that YOU know it too.
So you're best off leaving well-enough alone.
Believe me, your friendships with them are probably already going to be under a bit of a strain naturally, as you'll see next.
There's just no need to push the envelope.
Besides, you also need to consider that other people's tastes are different. Another guy may indeed have a girlfriend who may not seem as hot as yours to you, but in his mind he wouldn't trade places with you.
4) Don't Expect To Make Solid Social Connections With Dudes Who Don't Have Hot Girlfriends
But as men, our egos are such that we really, really can't stand situations where we're clearly being "alpha-ed" by one of our peers.
Don't kid yourself. If you've got a girlfriend who outshines anybody else's in your social circle, you're about to find it VERY difficult to make new friends, or possibly even keep your old ones.
Seriously, you may already know this from past experience. It SUCKS to hang around some dude whose chick you can't help but drool over, doesn't it?
It's even WORSE if he's a "normal guy" just like you.
No doubt, it drives other guys nuts when you've got such a hot girlfriend and they really, truly think they deserve someone like her every bit as much as you do, if not more.
For darned sure, don't even think about inviting another couple to hang out with the two of you unless the woman is roughly the same level of hotness as yours.
Trust me when I tell you that if she's not, you're in for one of the most awkward evenings of your life.
I realize what I'm saying here sounds rather shallow and petty, but I've learned the hard way that it's a predictable fact of life.
5) Take Direct Challenges In Stride
Less mature guys will sometimes attempt to challenge you directly. Even though this advertises their pure jealousy as clear as day, they'll do it anyway.
For example, they may wonder aloud why a hottie like her would be with someone like you.
They may bring up embarrassing things about you or your past when she's around.
Perhaps they'll blurt out that you've only ever dated ugly women until she came along.
Who knows? Maybe they'll demonstrate such little regard for you that they'll even hit on her while you're standing there.
In those cases, you must never let anger and/or disappointment get the best of you.
See such behavior for what it is and keep your cool.
Remember always, no matter what happens that you've already WON. She's with you already.
The only way you can lose in this scenario is by beating YOURSELF. You risk that if you get rattled and overreact.
Now, if any man ever disrespects HER or invades her personal space, you can and must step in to defend her. But that's different, and a subject I've already written about previously.
One important note before I sign off.
Be aware that although you may not presently have a whole lot of experience dealing with situations like I've just described, your hot girlfriend has probably seen each of them a HUNDRED times.
Think about that for a second.
That means at least two things.
First, she's going to have already gotten past the point of getting upset by any of it. She'll know how to keep her cool, most likely.
Second, you can bet that she's experienced enough to know better than to let anything some jealous guy says actually INFLUENCE her attraction toward you.
So you should relax. Don't let ANY guy steal your masculine power away by successfully getting inside your head and wrecking things.
Handle each scenario as I've suggested above and you'll come off to her like a guy who's also been around the block enough times not to be fazed by any of it either.
She's watching how you conduct yourself. And how you do so surely WILL have an impact on how attracted she is to you.
What did I miss? Leave it in the comments.