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Most of it revolves around “playing hard to get” with your ex.
You’ve probably seen some of it.
You’re a smart person, and you know that this isn’t the foundation of a successful relationship.
…But maybe, just maybe, you’ve wondered if “playing hard to get” might just get you back together with your ex…
…And THEN, you can start doing things the right way.
So, let’s talk about that.
Does "Playing Hard to Get” Work…?
In short, no.
And here’s why…
"Playing hard to get" may get you some initial attention.
After all, acting disinterested or unavailable may suddenly make someone curious (especially if you were very interested right beforehand).
But... (The Infamous “But”)
All the attention will be focused around what you’re up to and why you suddenly aren’t available anymore.
It won’t be built around YOU.
And if you want your relationship to work out with your ex, you need to keep the spotlight on you and your connection with your ex.
Plus, acting disinterested in your ex just doesn’t work in general.
After all, your ex wants to be with someone who makes them come alive and with whom they share a special connection with.
…Not someone who is just unavailable and “hard to get.”
So, the secret here is all about THIS…
…Don’t be “unavailable” and “hard to get” in the hopes that it brings your ex back.
Any “interest” your ex has, will only be short lived and not even based around you at all.
Instead, focus on having a rock solid connection with your ex so that they will want to be with you no matter how “hard to get” you may or may not be.
How Do You Do All That…?
It’s all about the connection.
And of course the way that I recommend building a strong connection with your ex is through applying the Advanced Relational Skills in the Ex Back Program.
Don’t expect to find mind games like “play hard to get” or anything like that.
Instead, expect to learn how you can develop the skills you need to connect with your ex on a deeper level.
Just know that like any other skill, you’ll have to practice.
It won’t be some sort of magical “quick fix.”
If that doesn’t scare you off, check out Ex Back Program over here.