A lot of people going through breakups worry that their ex will just forget them and move on.

I know this because I’ve gotten thousands of messages over the years. …

Plus, I’ve been in that exact situation myself.

Crying on the floor, wondering how things could have gotten this bad.

(But that’s a story for another day…)

How You Can Keep Your Ex From Forgetting You

Having your memory erased in your ex’s mind can be painful.

…Somehow thinking that all those special moments that you two shared together are somehow worthless to them.

…Meaningless.

…Maybe even just a waste.

Here’s the thing though.

First and foremost…

…Your Ex Will NOT Forget About You

(At Least Not Completely)

…Unless of course you only had, like, one date together or something.

But if you spent a significant time together… or even if you spent a short time together but the connection was intense… then your ex will NOT forget about you.

I know, I know…

You’re probably saying “Clay, that’s not what I’m worried about. I’m not worried that my ex will forget that they ever knew me…"

"…I’m Worried My Ex’s Feelings Will Vanish for Good”

I hear ya!

And here’s what you have to know.

Your ex’s feelings will only vanish for good if you give them a good reason to kill off their feelings for you.

On the other hand, if you can build their feelings for you, then they will actually start to care MORE about you and even come back to you again.

It’s just like a fire.

Starve a fire of oxygen and it will die away.

Give it more oxygen, by fanning the flames, and a small spark can grow into roaring fire.

Here’s Something I Want You to Remember and NEVER Forget…

Moment by moment…

…Day by day…

Your ex’s emotions for you are NEVER static.

They are constantly either increasing or decreasing depending on many different things.

(And keep this in mind, because it is equally true even after you get back together...!)

But the one major thing that you have control over is how YOU are bringing yourself to your ex and your interactions together.

So, if you don’t want your ex to forget about you, here is what you need to do:

Focus 100% on the quality of the connection between the two of you.

Constantly focus on making that connection high quality.

When this happens, your ex’s feelings toward you will increase.

And the more they increase, the less likely they are to forget about you.

And when they get strong enough, you might be surprised how easy it is to get back together.

How to Create a Strong Connection

The key to making a strong connection is to focus, not on yourself and worrying about whether you’re doing everything right or wrong.

The key is to change the game entirely.

You want to learn the Advanced Relational Skills that is taught inside the Ex Back System

These skills show you how to have a stronger connection with your ex.

So that you can get back together with them.

Even if things seem to be going in the wrong direction right now.

But here’s the thing.

These are skills.

You have to work at them for them to be effective.

You know… “Karate Kid” style.

“Wax on, wax off” and all that jazz.

Understand?

Okay.

If you’re interested in learning more, you can check out ESP over here.

-Clay