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How To Get Her In The Mood Without Her Knowing
I recently did a coaching call with a great guy in the UK.
During that call, something came up that I think is SO foundational to success with women yet so often overlooked by most of us as guys that I felt compelled to share it with you.
Since it's Saturday afternoon here in the U.S. already, the timing is perfect because you can keep what I'm about to share in mind TONIGHT.
The concept, simply put, is this.
Remember always that almost every guy out there focuses on SEX from the moment he sees a woman he's attracted to.
This first impulse tends to carry over to the first meeting with her, then the first date, etc.
Meanwhile, it's a RARE man who realizes that the true secret of actually getting sexual with a woman is to focus on HER sexuality rather than HIS OWN.
Yes, this has everything to do with representing what MOTOS (members of the other sex) want rather than trying so hard to get what YOU want, like I've talked about before.
BUT...it has even more to do with getting inside her head and discovering what turns her on.
Hint: The fact that YOU'RE so turned on WILL NOT automatically turn her on also, even though most of us seem to go about things as if that must be the case.
The truth is that women think more in terms of SENSUALITY than SEXUALITY...at least at first.
The secret? Focus on helping her FEEL good things.
The light. The sound. The sense of humor. The breeze. The moment.
Fill her senses with good things, and it will come back to you in the form of SEXUALITY from her...just like a boomerang.
Read what I've just said a couple of times and really let it sink in.
Not a lot of guys operate with that sort of in-depth "insider knowledge" in their back pocket.
And even then, fewer still have the patience to execute on the plan.
You're not some wuss here who spends tons of money and acts like a "woman with a penis", here. Nope.
Rather, you're a REAL man who knows what women like...and makes it happen for them.
Be one of the few...and the sexually satisfied.
And always remember the "equation" that illustrates what I'm talking about:
PLAYFULNESS = HORNINESS
Add to that this:
SENSUALITY + PATIENCE = SEXUALITY
...and all of your dreams will come true. She'll gladly grant them.
Make her feel SAFE...fill her senses with FUN things...then invite the naughty girl in there to come out an PLAY.
What do you think? Share your thoughts in the comments below!