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Sometimes I have to laugh.
I mean, weren't all of these technological advancements" supposed to take care of all the "work" for us? Weren't we supposed to end up with MORE free time than LESS?
But even in the midst of all this "modern mayhem" there's still a major exception to the rule.
There's one situation that causes even the most "slammed" business executive or "swamped" single mom to suddenly have PLENTY of extra time.
It's true, isn't it?
I mean, I've seen massive, megalithic blocks of time open up in the lives of people who previously didn't have time to grab breakfast, lunch or dinner...let alone any sleep.
Suddenly priorities are completely re-arranged. What seemed so "important" takes a back seat to getting to know "that special someone".
You betcha. That's what it's like when you meet someone you're REALLY, TRULY attracted to and CAN'T WAIT to see again.
If you're smiling to yourself reading this, you already know what I'm talking about is 100% true...and almost universally so, even among the most disciplined people with fully legit responsibilities.
No joke...sometimes people will even go TOO far, resulting in lower job performance and kids who feel slightly neglected.
I know that YOU know exactly what I'm talking about here. So I've just got one question for you.
What's up with all the e-mails I get asking whether or not I think some chick who hasn't been returning your calls or texts is "still interested" in you or not?
I can tell you straight up: If a woman is hot for you, she WILL find time for you.
On the contrary, when your voicemails go unanswered for half a week it's time say "next".
I really don't care if she eventually calls you back apologizing because she's "been really, really busy this week".
At best, her interest in you is mild.
But the relevant truth here is the same for both Buffalo wings and attraction. What you need is WILD not MILD, my brother.
Far too many guys have too few options when it comes to women, therefore they continue to push certain "opportunities" uphill even when they're getting nowhere fast.
If you're just beating your head against the wall trying to gauge a woman's interest in you, she's probably NOT interested.
And that's okay, as we've said around here time and again. Not every human being is everyone else's cup of tea...regardless.
"But Scot, maybe she's just trying to avoid looking desperate herself. Maybe she's just 'playing hard to get'."
Perhaps. But if she is, that's her loss. What do you need with a woman foolish enough to play those kinds of games with you?
Make this your rule from now on. If she's not excited about you...she LOSES OUT.
Stop "pushing it uphill".
Life's too short for that, and you're too busy...at least for now, until the right woman comes along.