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The problem is, most guys reach a certain age and start to think that younger hotties are no longer an option.
In fact, many guys in their 30s have already convinced themselves that women who are even 5 or 10 years younger are "out of reach".
When men mature into their 40s and 50s this mentality becomes more common.
Of course they still dream of dating younger women. But they limit their dating options to women closer to their own age--who often have more "baggage" than Paris Hilton coming home after an all-day shopping spree.
Granted, age is only a number. And there are some great women of all ages.
But it's for that very same reason, ironically enough, that if you're in your 30s, 40s, or beyond, it's time to destroy the myth that you can only get women very close to your own age.
There are ways for you to use your maturity, sophistication, knowledge, and life experience as a huge tactical ADVANTAGE.
There are super-effective strategies for you to use the "age gap" as a massively ATTRACTIVE quality!
You may not realize it, but you possess tools right now that younger women find extremely appealing...and that younger guys DON'T have going for them.
But 95% of men go through life NEVER understanding how to tap into these tools and use them.
They think that only rich guys and celebrities can enjoy the company of younger women...the kinds of girls that get stared at by other men everywhere they go.
Well, this simply is not true. In fact, it really isn't money or fame that causes younger women to be drawn to older guys. It's maturity, groundedness, and a level of wisdom that most younger guys can't yet touch.
When you get right down to it, it's our own limiting beliefs and perceptions about "what women want" looping over and over in our head that keep us as older guys from succeeding with younger women.
So here are a few tips you can start using right now...
Don't try to conceal your age. If she's obviously younger than you, ASK HER how old she is.
When she replies, turn this into a recurring THEME throughout the conversation: that you're ___ years old, and she's ___ years old, and you've normally dated girls who are "older and more experienced" than she is.
See what you're doing there? Make her measure up to YOUR standards! Instead of trying to IMPRESS this younger chick, make her feel she needs to IMPRESS YOU if she's going to get to be with a guy of your age and life experience.
For example, when you meet a younger woman you might mention a classic movie or a song you heard on the radio today by one of your favorite classic rock bands.
Or it could be an artist who had an exhibition you checked out...a well-known restaurant...a bottle of wine...a trip you recently took to Europe...this could be ANYTHING that establishes that you are a smart, sophisticated guy.
You are establishing that a guy your age KNOWS about cool, interesting things that guys her own age are not even AWARE of.
Chances are, she won't be familiar with what you're talking about. Then, you flip it to your advantage and make your age and experience feel like a reason she NEEDS a guy like you:
"Melissa (assuming for now that's her name), I can't believe you've never experienced a great Malbec before. I can tell there are a lot of things I'm going to need to introduce you to..."
You're laying the foundation for an ongoing relationship. There are all kinds of things, and places, that you're going to SHOW this woman.
A cool result of this is that now you can come up with all sorts of creative date ideas.
Why revert to the unimaginative (or even awkward) "dinner and a movie" date? You can take her to see some live music, or to an art gallery, or show her a DVD of a classic movie at YOUR place...
More importantly, the "subtext" of telling her what I just shared is that you are a man who can add VALUE to her life.
She is going to learn about cool, exciting things and places by spending time with a guy like YOU. Best of all, it'll be in a way that most--if not all--younger guys CAN'T TOUCH.
Women, as you probably know, mature faster than men. What you may NOT have considered is that this goes way deeper than physical maturity. The average 25-year-old woman is ready for a LOT MORE than what a 25-year-old guy can provide.
It's actually easy to "turn the tables" and be in control of every conversation you have with younger women. You'll actually have girls COMPETING for your attention and trying to get YOU more interested in them.
Here's to dating, and feeling, younger!
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