I can't stop thinking about a random guy I kissed at a club

[lovestuck98]

So I kissed a stranger at a club the other night, and I cannot stop thinking about him.
It wasn't like I just turned around and kissed him, we were chatting and dancing for quite a bit, then we snogged, then danced/chatted some more, so we spent most of the night together.
I got his name and number, but I haven't dared text him yet. I do really want to see him again, though - I don't know whether it's real (maybe the fact I was a bit drunk helped) but I really, really liked him - specially after we kissed.
The thing is, I don't dare contact him as I'm scared all he wanted was a one night stand and wasn't even attracted to me. I'm concerned he'll laugh at me if I try contact him, because what if he didn't even like me? There were a few hints he wanted a one night stand, like he asked where I was staying that night etc.
I suppose my question is: is it safe to say he was attracted to me if he kissed me (properly, at least three times) and stayed with me for most of the night? Or do guys literally just do that sort of stuff in order to sleep with a girl? Also, he didn't ask for my number and didn't know my name when we kissed, which makes me think he wasn't attracted to me.
BTW - if you couldn't tell, this is literally the first time I've kissed a stranger in a club so I'm new to that sort of stuff

[Peggy]

It really does not matter how many women have climbed up the corporate ladder in the corporate world. No matter what turn of the century we all have, the basic fact is that men always have the upper hand in situation of first calls. So, let us walk through the things you can do to alleviate this situation.

1 - Do not try to interpret

If he does not call, let him be. If something happened that prevented him from calling you such as he lost your contact number, he will be doubling his effort and appear at your doorstep instead. But, if he does not then it was just not meant to be. He is not interested and you are not going to grovel at his feet.

2 - Schedule your days properly

There is time for everything. If you have plans for the week then go ahead with it. There is no need to cancel them unless something very important came up such as you received his call Friday night. But, even then, I advise you not to cancel appointments easily because of him. Let him wait.

3 - Move on

It is time for another bar party. Do not sit on your couch; watch TV with both phone and remote on your hand. Go out there and meet up with your buddies. If he wishes to call then he might have done so right now. The fact that he did not call even after many days means that he is not worth your time.

Should I call him? The answer apparently is no. Wait for him and do not think about it too much. There are hundreds of things to do so that you will not feel tortured.

[Roy]

is it safe to say he was attracted to me if he kissed me (properly, at least three times) and stayed with me for most of the night?

Let me tell you, guys can do anything just to sleep with a girl. The fact that he kissed you doesn't at all mean he is attracted to you, and moreover you both met in a club and it's normal for such things to happen. Club is a place people go to have fun, and him kissing you is still for the fun. So, I advise you take him off your mind.

However, if he was attracted to you, he won't hesitate to call you. So, don't make the mistake of calling or texting him first. You will end up as a sex buddy if you do this.

I know you don't want to be his sex buddy, so that is the reason you have to wait for him to contact you first.

If he doesn't, move on without thinking of him again.