Im 17 and i need dating advice PLEASE

[SamLan779]

Hi, so basically i kinda need advice, heres the situation.

Im a 17 year old guy and i have never had any sexual experience, im still a virgin and ive not even been to 3rd base before (touching genitals) not gonna lie im a decent enough looking fella and confidence isnt really an issue, the issue is experience.

So anyway, theres this girl who i like and she has told me that she likes me as well, so far so good but heres where it gets tricky... she used to have a boyfriend before and they were together for like 2-3 years i think, and i know for an absolute FACT that she has had sex multiple times before. I dont really have an issue with that its just on one side of the spectrum theres me who has no sexual experience what so ever and theres her who really likes me but shes done like every sexual thing possible, ive never send nudes to anyone (nor have i ever even asked before) and ive never 'sexted' or talked dirty to anyone ever before in my life....

So this is the problem, she likes me (and i know that im not a rebound because they broke up like a solid year ago and i know that she has completely moved on from him) and i like her. But ive never been dirty with her, never been sexy or kinky on snapchat, all of our convos have been really 'clean' and non sexual which isnt exactly great and its my fault cause ive never engaged in it. And ive never done anything dirty with her in person. But i literally know for a fact that she wants me so bad, i may not have any experience but im not an idiot she wants me soo bad but i dont know how to be sexy, or anything along those lines. plus theres not a hope in hell that someone with no sexual experience can ever 'please her' the way her ex used to because ive never done anything dirty with a girl before whereas its like second nature to her.

What do i do?? I really like this girl, like i said before im a decent enough looking guy and im pretty confident but im lost.

how do i be sexy on snapchat? How often should we sext (daily, weekly, every few days?)
When you send nudes over snapchat, what message do you send with the photos? What compliments do you give a girl when she sends you a picture of her breasts? How long does sexting last? ...How do i be sexy in person? (Gonna get weird real quick) but how long do you finger a girl for? 5 mins? 10 mins? Until she tells you to stop? How the fuck do you even kiss properly??? Thats probably the main concern to be honest like how to even kiss properly, ive watched videos on youtube and ive read articles about it but they mainly just tell you things like where to put your hands and to close your eyes and shit like that (which i do already know). What motion do you make with your tounge whilst kissing??? I need to know EVERYTHING!!

Any and all help will be very very much appreciated.

EDIT: Ok so its thurday night as im writing this and me and this girl are both going to the same night club on saturday and we will defently be together (probably both have alcohol in us but defo not using that as an excuse), and we will most likely be alone....

[SmallTalk]

Okay, calm down. She is an experienced girl and she'll show you what she likes. And afterwards you both will find out what you like.
Don't be to worried about kissing. Everybody kisses different and there is no recipe for it. And don't think about fingering time, perhaps she doesn't like it at all?
Don't be to automatic and see your virginity as a gift for her. No other woman has evwer touched your body - hello? That is nothing to be ashamed of. Relax. And good luck for saturday. And stay safe!

[Mabel]

Knowing the art of dirty talk can help you a lot in seducing your girl and having a wonderful sex experience. However, the kind of words you need to use and the effectiveness will all depend on the woman you are trying to seduce. Here are some steps to help you master dirty talking.

The first thing you need to do is to start slow. You should not rush things especially when it comes to sex. Some women might be turned off if you start talking dirty suddenly. You need to weigh things first and see if the woman is open to this.

The second thing to know is the perfect timing. Do not randomly talk dirty. You need to know the perfect time when to do it. One of the best situations is when the heat is on. This is when both of you are already aroused and are looking forward to sharing the bed together. The time before orgasm is also great because this is the time when things should not necessarily be logical.

The third useful thing to learn the art of dirty talking is to learn the art of fantasy storytelling. Women are very interested in fantasy stories especially if it is their partner's story. Therefore, do not be afraid to share your daydreams with your girl. Tell her what you want. Who knows? She may be helpful in making the fantasy become a reality.

The fourth thing is to know the two types of dirty talk. The first type is the soft-core. This is the kind of dirty talk that does not involve very sexual words. You can just tell the girl how pretty she is and how happy you are to be with her at that moment. You can also tell her how much you love her and how much you care for her. It is always useful to start with these words because they are the safest. Use it to make the atmosphere lighter before you go into the more naughty expressions. The hard-core dirty talk, on the other hand, involves the real dirty words. In here, you can use very vulgar expressions. You can tell the girl where you want to touch her or where you want to be touched. You can also use swearing words that will help you keep up the heat of the moment. Hard-core expressions are the words that should be kept between the two of you only.

The fifth thing is to mean what you say. Everything you say to your partner should come from your heart. They should be sincere no matter how naughty they are. You should be able to make your partner feel comfortable and to gain her trust as well. You do not have to memorize things. You just need to be yourself and say what you really feel. It is also important to learn how to effectively say the words. Saying them with groans and whispers can make your partner feel more aroused.

[Nate]

Every guy wants to know how to sext their girl of interest. To many guys, this is 2nd or even 3rd base in a relationship or fling. Fortunately, it's not that hard to learn how to sext properly. You just have to remember 2 things. The first thing you have to remember is that girls will only start sexting you if you strike an emotion in them. Make them laugh or even confuse them or hold them in suspense for a little bit. This will get their attention. Once you've got their attention you'll want to reference some kind of connection that the two of you have in common and then wrap it around a sexual innuendo. This way, the girl will feel more comfortable continuing the sexual conversation. You have to make her think of you specifically. Paint a picture and make her think you're right there seducing her.

Examples of sexting.

A good example of texting involves clothing. Most girls love to be complimented about their clothing. However, we're not going to compliment them in this case. What we're gonna use is a little reverse psychology to spark an emotion and then make a connection.

Here's an example:

Girl: Just came back from the mall. So tired.

Guy: Sorry to hear that. I actually just left macys. Picked up some fancy underwear.

Girl: Why do you need fancy underwear? Isn't that expensive?

Guy: Sometimes I like to splurge on the good stuff. Don't tell me you've never bought some sexy underwear.

Girl: Of course. All girls do that.

Guy: And did it make you happy? Are you satisfied with your sexy purchase?

Girl: I think they look great.

Guy: You in sexy underwear? I don't know if I can picture that. You're such a good girl.

Girl: Oh I'm no angel.

Guy: Well, in that case, I'd like to see some pics of this little devil. I'll rate you 1-10. Let's see how sexy that thong you bought is.

Here we made a connection (both of us were shopping). Then I switched the conversation to talking about underwear. Whether I bought underwear or not is not important. We're just using that as an entry point for sexting. Get creative and you'll find it very easy to talk girls into sexting without even asking.

How sexting can improve a relationship.

Sexting can improve a relationship immensely. Whether your interest has a low or high sex drive, sexting can help her visualize and feel more comfortable about having sex with you without risking any kind of awkwardness or rejection. This kind of communication can help the two of you bond the way no one else can and it can help put you first among all the guys that may be chasing her.

When not to send sexting messages.

Avoid sexting a girl you just met. You should first go out on a date or 2 before initiating any kind of sexual conversation. Otherwise you might risk losing her altogether. It's also not a good idea to send sext messages when the girl is in a bad mood. You can usually tell this through good conversation. Good sexting needs proper timing. Try to get a good feel of her moods and what she's doing before trying to sext her.

How to improve your sexting skills.

As menntioned earlier, sexting is all about making a good connection and striking up an emotion. Practice "mock conversations". Write some thing that you want to tell her on a piece of paper and guess the responses. When you're practicing, don't make her responses sexual. Make them realistic and try to tie in a sexual reference so that you can transition normal text into an erotic conversation.