I guess we're a perfect match

[yourisabella91]

I joined a foreign dating event last year and just like me, the girls in the event are waiting to be loved and hopeful in getting married with someone of foreign influence. I am from Colombia and this is my journey in meeting the man of my dreams.

I grew up in Cartagena, a big city in Colombia, a city known for its attractive women. I joined the foreign dating event with hopes of finding true love. I really don’t mind if he’s older than me. After a year of membership, at last, someone noticed my profile and sent “letters” to me. Based on his profile, he is an entrepreneur with 2 kids. He is divorced and currently looking for a wife. I guess we’re a perfect match!

Aside from his work, he told me he is athletic and pretty much leads a healthy and sporty lifestyle (which works really great for me, since I’m just as athletic and sporty.) I love playing volleyball, soccer, and “some” water sports. I guess we’re a perfect match! Having similar hobbies and interests

I know it’s hard to expect but based on what he’s saying, he’s definitely interested in me. Am I too confident? Yes, because he has given me expectations and promises. Do I have to rely on this? Please respond. Your reactions are appreciated.

[Ashley]

Having similar hobbies isn't enough criteria to determine if you both are perfect match. I will advice you take things slow and study his personality for awhile.

[John]

I will advice you follow your heart, you heart won't lie to you.

[bunnyhabit]

you are far from a perfect match. but the buds of a workable relationship seem to have developed. are you willing to relocate to his home town.? are you willing to face the difficulty of become a stepmom to two children who probably still love their mother and will treat you as an intruder? does he send you love letters often? are you a perfect match in bed. he was the best sex partner for you and you were his best yet?

as Ashley said don't hang your hat on similar hobbies equating to a perfect match there are a lot of other considerations to make this a perfect match if such a utopian state is actually possible for anyone.

seems you are desperate to marry anyone so are sugar coating this short visit with a guy. best to keep your options open with other men till you at least get an engagement ring from him.