Gay or straight??

[Keke]

So i am a bit confuse as it relates to my sexuality. I am not sure if i am a lesbian or i am straight. I have been in relationship with guys before and had have sex with them (didnt like it). I have never dated a girl before or slept with one. The problem is,I get sexual feelings for girls that i am yet to get with males. I have dreamt about having sex with girls before. I am more turned on by by thinking about girls than guys. I have flirted with girls but when it comes to test for something to happen i change my mind. The fact is,I cannot stop thinking about girls in a sexual way,i dont look on guys like this. Please give me some comments..I urge your opinions.

[Zinok]

I wouldn't care too much about the labels, personally.
It sounds like you`re not into guys though, at least not sexually. Or perhaps you are, but just weren`t compatible with the men you`ve dated in the past.

Either way, I`d encourage you to explore your feelings regarding women. Maybe your bi. Maybe you`re pansexual. Maybe you`re lesbian. Don`t get caught up in trying to fit into a label though, I`d recommend you focus more on what your body and your mind is telling you. Who are you attracted to. Go for them. Regardless of gender. Who do you enjoy having sex with? Have sex with them. Regardless of gender.
With some experimentation and experience you`ll find it easier to figure out what and who you`re into, but there`s no shame in taking the time to figure it out.

[Keke]

Thank you very much.

[bunnyhabit]

the only way to settle your question is to have a sexual relationship with a girl since you have already had a sexual relationship with a man. after exploring love with both genders you may determine you are bisexual vs. straight or lesbian. that is what happened to me. i have loved men and women in my past.

[Keke]

Thanks much