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Hello, so this man that I am going out with now (Which happens to be a gentleman, sweet man, really good, I have never gone out with a man like this. he is quite older, he is 46 and I am 29 going to be 30. Anyways he was married for 10 years and now he is divorced, his ex wife is older than him she is almost 60, and they still speak, and the other days he was driving and I was sitting next to him and she called him an he did not answer, but he had told me before that she calls him and asks him to go to her house an fix her car or to do this or that.,basically do her favors.She lives in another city like 2 hours from were we live. he told me that he appreciates her very much ( he was happily married and so on), but he cannot even have the thought of kissing her or anything, he wants her very much, appreciates her but that’s it. so I did get a little jealous and my mind was wondering around, if he still has feelings for her rooted in him. it's not like he talks all the time about her, but when he mentions his past and brings her up, I feel weird, like a little jealous, not going to lie.
He was 31 when he married her and she was around 44, I wonder if he married her for his papers to be here in the states or if he really was in love with her. (10 years is too much for just papers an getting a migratory status in the states) they also have 2 dogs in common an he is crazy about the 2 dogs, loves them. I sense to much attachment with the dogs which happen to live with her (his ex wife). This is a fairly new relationship almost 2 months. I don't know the exact exact reason why they divorced, but according to him, he says they distanced themselves, and they separated, he was vulnerable, since his wife wanted time away from him, no communication or nothing, so she told him once'' Ok if you want sex I let you go and give you the permission to have sex with other women, so when she found out that he was going out with a 23 year old girl him being 40, she had a jealous tantrum and that's when she asked him for the divorce, and he did not want to divorce her (this is what he told me) he wanted to work it out.
He also asked me:'' your not with me because of the money right? i mean cause I have no money, yet he drives a Mercedez-Benz and works in an engineer company doing inspections and other things. I wonder if he is testing me, whether if I am with him because I truly like him or because of the money! Now I feel confused.
He was 31 when he married her and she was around 44, I wonder if he married her for his papers to be here in the states or if he really was in love with her. (10 years is too much for just papers an getting a migratory status in the states) they also have 2 dogs in common an he is crazy about the 2 dogs, loves them. I sense to much attachment with the dogs which happen to live with her (his ex wife). This is a fairly new relationship almost 2 months. I don't know the exact exact reason why they divorced, but according to him, he says they distanced themselves, and they separated, he was vulnerable, since his wife wanted time away from him, no communication or nothing, so she told him once'' Ok if you want sex I let you go and give you the permission to have sex with other women, so when she found out that he was going out with a 23 year old girl him being 40, she had a jealous tantrum and that's when she asked him for the divorce, and he did not want to divorce her (this is what he told me) he wanted to work it out.
He also asked me:'' your not with me because of the money right? i mean cause I have no money, yet he drives a Mercedez-Benz and works in an engineer company doing inspections and other things. I wonder if he is testing me, whether if I am with him because I truly like him or because of the money! Now I feel confused.
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