Is she interested?

[Durden93]

Hello,

So I know this girl through work. For background, I'm 25, she's 20. We're both working part-time. I'm confused about whether this girl is keen on me or just being friendly. She smiles a lot around me, but I find she is a friendly person in general. It's clear that she has a high level of comfort around me, because she'll joke around with me a lot (ie, she'll pretend to fling an elastic at me, "spy" on me by holding an object to her eye and looking at me through it, and playfully hitting me with an empty container). She's also tried to give me playful nicknames involving my name and she seems willing to see me again (ie asks when my next shift is, and if we're not working together that day will ask when I work after that). These things suggest to me that she is interested, but she also shows signs of disinterest. For example, she doesn't ask me too many questions about myself, and while she is comfortable talking to me at work when nobody is around, our conversations don't really get going when others are around such as in the break room (she seems shy, but as noted above, still friendly)

With this in mind I have two questions:

1) Is she interested?
2) How do I turn her comfort into attraction?

Thanks

[Zinok]

Sounds like she's just a bubbly person. Nothing you said specifically makes me think she's into you.
But that being said, you're the one in the situation, so you're the one best suited to know if she likes you. Or you could, you know, just ask her. Ask her if she'd like to hang out after work some time, or show overt interest in her to "feel her out".

[Tina]

It's true she is friendly and playful, but I don't think she is interested in a relationship with you. That is because she doesn't ask you personal questions about yourself. One way to know a girl is attracted to you is if she is concerned about your personal well-being.

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[Durden93]

Thank you for your responses. Zinok, could you explain what you mean by overtly showing interest?