girl at work just seeking or attention or is she liking me?

[weywey123]

I work in a restaurant. this restaurant is located in a mall.

I like a girl at work since I actually work there (about a year). However, she then had a boyfriend. after about a month she started to talk to me more and more and we often smile at each other when we look at each other (something she also does behind the counter when I'm on the other side of the restaurant). a supervisor wants me to get a girlfriend and asked her if she wanted something with me. When that girl said if (my name) want then I want to. this is about 2 months back. She then asked for a Valentine gift a few times. However, I did not go into that and did not buy anything.

a month ago I was about to make a burger and I did something wrong. then she rubbed my arm and asked if she could do it.

The day before yesterday she said out of nowhere that two employees of the mall had told her that she should take something with me because we would be a good match because we are opposites. she no longer has a boyfriend here.

Also yesterday I also sat on my phone and she came from the other side of the restaurant grabbed my arm and gave a tap on my fingers.

Also the day before yesterday we were changing clothes and an elderly woman who works there whistled to me. then said that girl (my name) is allready my boyfriend.

She also asked for a Valentine's gift and wanted chocolate and a gift voucher from the mcdonalds. (I have already bought both) she doesnt know i got the mcdonalds gift card because we both thought that that wasnt available in my country but apparently it is.

I had to sign a contract today and met her.

she was behind the counter and she said I can not wait for Saturday.

So I said I have the present i even have two presents

then she said oh exciting I am curious.

how do you guys think about this. does she just want attention or do you guys think she likes me? and i should ask her out

[weywey123]

someone that can help me?

[Camila]

I think she likes you, but she is just waiting for you to let the cat out of the bag.

I suggest you ask her out, and you will definitely get a positive response.

Good luck!

[weywey123]

I think she likes you, but she is just waiting for you to let the cat out of the bag.

I suggest you ask her out, and you will definitely get a positive response.

Good luck!

Hi,

thanks for the response. The reason i posted this is because she does the flirting but normally girls dont ask for gifts

[Bradwin]

No doubt, this girl is into you. Hence she is seeking so much attention from you. Whenever a girl seeks such attention from a guy, it's a clear sign that she likes him.

So, make it a point to ask her out. I'm very sure she is anxiously waiting for you to do that.

[Camila]

Hi,

thanks for the response. The reason i posted this is because she does the flirting but normally girls dont ask for gifts

Yes, it's true that girls don't ask for gifts but in this situation she's your coworker. So, there is already familiarity between you and her, hence she wants to get your attention by asking for a gift and at the same time sending you a subtle signal that she likes you.

[weywey123]

Yes, it's true that girls don't ask for gifts but in this situation she's your coworker. So, there is already familiarity between you and her, hence she wants to get your attention by asking for a gift and at the same time sending you a subtle signal that she likes you.

Hi,

thanks for the answer. You have a valid reason but the first time she asked for a gift it was still when she had a boyfriend.

Since i already bought the chocplate what is the best way to ask her:

Say you asked for a gift now i want to ask you something. Do you want to go for a drink.

Or:

When i give the chocolate and then say i dont jusy buy chocolate for everyone. Thats why i want to ask you something. Do you want to go for a drink

[weywey123]

No doubt, this girl is into you. Hence she is seeking so much attention from you. Whenever a girl seeks such attention from a guy, it's a clear sign that she likes him.

So, make it a point to ask her out. I'm very sure she is anxiously waiting for you to do that.

Hi,

I taught she was flirting to but the sttange thing is rubbing my arm she still had a boyfriend at that point.
also the first time she asked for a gift at valentines she had a boyfriend

[ayeshakhan]

Thats all fine. You don't have to worry about all that. She HAD a boyfriend. Now I'm sure she wants to be with you and you should give it a shot

[weywey123]

Thats all fine. You don't have to worry about all that. She HAD a boyfriend. Now I'm sure she wants to be with you and you should give it a shot

i know.
but that rubbing my arm was the time she still had a boyfriend.

[LanaReid]

You could go the easy route instead of trying to guess and just ASK her what's going on. Say something like "I can be a lil blind sometimes, but are you trying to do a lil sumthin sumthin with me?"

[weywey123]

You could go the easy route instead of trying to guess and just ASK her what's going on. Say something like "I can be a lil blind sometimes, but are you trying to do a lil sumthin sumthin with me?"

do you think that that is better than just asking her out?

[weywey123]

1 more question. on the chocolate should i putt an paper with her name and a heart below it?

[weywey123]

And this is probably a bust. I talked to a colleague and he says that she has a boyfriend.

[weywey123]

Hi.

Today i asked if asking gor the gift was just for the gift or for something behind it. She then said it was a joke.