Is she into me or just being flirty?

[Jweblo]

It doesn't matter who else is in the room with us or whether we're watching TV, she always sits with me, right up against me with her back pressed against my chest with my arm around her or by her side, and will sometimes play with my fingers. She's never said anything to me but if she's not interested in me, why is she doing this? I noticed too that she's continually brushing her hair away from her forehead while sitting with me but I don't think she's even aware she's doing it. And she always takes these really big sighs every now and then, as if she was holding her breath. Do these signs mean she is interested me? She's never said anything to me about being interested and when we're apart if I don't contact her she won't contact me first.

[ANG789]

Some strange signs she gives you! Maybe she wants to hear from you a confession?

[Victoria]

The signs she gives shows that she likes you. The signs are beyond being flirty. However, I think she wants you to establish communication in that regard. So, be courageous and ask her out.

[Caleb]

At times, women can be difficult to figure out. They are very good at hiding their feelings and this can be intimidating for a man. Wouldn't it be great if you could walk right up to a woman with the confidence that she will be interested in you? There are a few signs you can look for to know for sure that she is interested in you.

Subconscious Signals

When a girl that likes you is talking to you, she may be doing several things at once. Playing with her hair, looking at everything in the room but you and coming off more confident than she really is are all subtle signs that she likes you, even though she thinks she's hiding it.

Some women will show a little amount of interest, but then expect you to take the lead. Others are more straightforward and have no problem letting you know what's on their mind. Trust your intuition. If you are feeling vibes that there is something to what you're feeling, don't ignore it. They don't call it chemistry for nothing. If she blushes at certain things you say, there's a good chance she's feeling the same way you are.

If she is interested, it will show

If a girl is interested in you she will do several things without even realizing it.

• She will play with her hair if you are scratching your head or beard. This is known as "Subconscious Mirroring."
• If you are standing in front of her and you look down to see her feet are also facing towards you, she is interested. If her feet were pointing to the right or left, she is subconsciously trying to get away, literally making a "run for it."
• When she talks to you, comments may inadvertently become leading without her even realizing it. Asking you where you were the other night when you didn't make it to a party could be a big indicator she was looking for you and was disappointed you weren't there.
• She will try to be around you, if you hang out in the same area, like a coffee shop or bookstore or have the same group of friends.

She may realize you are a good guy and want you to meet her friends, to be drawn into her social circle. They will surely give her the thumbs up or down. Be sure they will give you the once over. Being confident and comfortable with who you are as person will come across as being genuine and a good guy.

Paying attention

Remembering you like a certain movie or game indicates she pays attention and wants to be drawn into your world. If you mentioned you liked the color red, and she's wearing a red sweater when you meet up with friends, it means she wants to look nice for you and wants you to notice her.

Whatever her reason for not being open about her liking you, don't ignore the signs.

[Jweblo]

Thanks for the replies.
I'm confused because when we're apart she doesn't appear interested after a while as if her interest has faded. She even acts or comes off as irritated if I txt or call. she won't answer my txts for days sometimes and sometimes ignores them completely and won't call most of the time even if she says she'll call. But as soon as I see her again she starts acting the way I described in my first post.

[bunnyhabit]

i think she is trying to make someone else jealous. i there another guy always present when she flirt you? she doesn't seem hot for you given your comments in post #5

[smackie9]

The only way to find out is to ask her out on a date. If you hear everything under the sun other than a "yes" tell her to cut it out.

[Jweblo]

Bunnyhabit, no there's no guy present when we're together. She acts that way when we're alone as well. I don't know of any other guy in the picture. She always contacts me when I get fed up with her ignoring and stop getting in touch. She will then say sorry and make excuses for not getting back to me. And we start all over again. It may be my fault. When we first got together I think I came on a bit strong calling and txting a lot. At first she was okay with it, doing the same, but then she seemed to draw back until I stopped talking to her.

[singingstick]

Maybe try to talk to and get together with her more often to find out.