baldness - truth most people don't want to admit to

[worriedwithfear]

Life is becoming increasingly more difficult as I get older. The loneliness is really painful, especially on the weekends. During the week I think work distracts me enough to get me through it but this loneliness is like a disease.




I believe a large part of why I feel this way and have lost confidence is due to my baldness at a fairly early age. I do genuinely believe that if I wasn't bald, more women would pay attention to me. I am a living proof of this. When I was younger, even a few years ago and had a buzz cut, I had more attention, women would check me out in public, I had more interest online etc. but now with a totally shiny bald head, I gain very little interest. This as you can imagine is painful. If I was married and/or had a partner, I wouldn't care but as a single man who's still searching for someone, this is a terrible situation to be in.




There is so much hypocrisy, in that many of you and nearly everyone will say baldness doesn't/shouldn't matter, it's more about your character and attitude. Women will reassure us saying it's not that important because it's more about the person and character. BUT the question is how are these women going to get to know your character and attitude if they don't find you physically attractive to begin with?? That's the point, because that's what comes first, that initial physical attraction. It's like saying to a fat chick; don't worry about being fat, men will find your sweet nature and kind heart attractive. How many fat chicks do you see with attractive men? Doesn't happen. How many bald dudes do you see with slim, attractive women? Happens rarely.




It doesn't matter if you're tall, dark, got other things going for you, the shiny bald head just isn't going to turn heads. If baldness wasn't such a bad thing then why do we see baldness made fun of, ridiculed etc. Tell me how many tv commercials do you see which showcase bald men? How many slim, beautiful models do you see hooking with bald dudes (obv I don't mean Jason Statham, Rock etc. I'm talking about every day bald dudes who aren't A-list actors or celebs and have a gazillion dollars)??

[Caleb]

There is a strong popular conception that women don't like bald men. Is this really true? There will always be a wide variety of personal preferences, and certainly some women would never consider dating a bald man-but these are probably the same women who are obsessed with cosmetic surgery and make it their life's ambition to be on reality TV shows.

Interestingly enough, there is some research that suggests that premature balding evolved as a reproductive advancement for human males-in other words, prematurely bald men have an advantage over hairy men. How is this possible? Well, although our modern media may suggest that a man just isn't a MAN without news-anchor hair, the theory behind this research is that among our ancient ancestors, bald men reproduced as much or MORE than their hairy counterparts! Since a large number of men lose their hair at an early age, from a genetic perspective this must be a trait that women favored otherwise it would have died out. The prevalence of male pattern balding is evidence that women must be drawn to balding men! How could this be? Well, hair loss is a sign of maturity; a man usually loses his hair in his later years. Women may be genetically programmed to see a bald man as being more mature, and therefore, a good reproductive partner! A man with early hair loss is sending out secret signals that imply that he is more mature, socially adept, less of a risk-taker and more likely to settle down-the ideal man!

There is a wide body of evidence supporting bald sexiness! Yul Brynner, Sean Connery, Patrick Stewart, and George Foreman are just a few examples of sexy men-unashamed of their prominent craniums! The bottom line-women are attracted to confidence. If a man is confident and comfortable with himself, women will flock to him!

[Jerome]

It's a horrible feeling when you are attracted to a girl and she won't give you the time of day. You start to wonder if there is something wrong with you. Is the content of my wallet not big enough? Am I lacking charisma? Or am simply not attractive? There's no point in even asking her what exactly she is looking for because then you just look like a needy and desperate loser.

So what is a guy suppose to do?

How do you get the woman that you desire while looking confidant and not like a big time loser?

Well Mr. It's all a psychological thing. When it comes to women-attraction stems from psychological principles and tactics. The chance of a man hooking up or getting a girl to hang out with him is more than 60%. The odds are on your side!

An excellent psychological technique to use when attempting to attract a girl is option limitation. The gist of this technique is to make the girl feel as though you are giving her a variety of options to choose from. This will make her feel as though you are respecting her intellectual freedom. For example, when you meet a girl instead of asking her "Would you like a drink?" a better option would be "How are you? Would you like a drink or maybe a bite to eat?" In her mind she is thinking, "Hmmm, he's given me options...he seems like a gentleman...ill give him a chance". The chances of her accepting your offer is greatly increased.

This is just one example of how psychological principles can win the girl of your dreams.

Here's the thing, you can seduce any woman that you desire! While it might sound like a tough thing to do, it really is not. All that needs to be done is to study the "rules" for success!

[smackie9]

I dunno....maybe ask how Vin Diesel is doing with the ladies?

When I was a teenager Kojack was considered as hot.