Am I too ugly/unattractive to date? Tips?

[starboi]

Hey there,

I have troubles finding women who like me. I can be a bit shy at times with women because I do not want to come off too strong and scare them or put them off.

Im not perfect by any measure but like to think im a nice caring guy. I dont care too much about a womens looks, and tend to be more attracted to personality once I get to know them. I just want someone to like me and be attracted to me, and not feel like they are settling for me. I have no race/skin/height/weight preferences in women, though I might find it hard to date a women over 300 lbs(but its a possibility if i like them).

I have been hanging out with this women for the last little while but I think im just too unattractive for her to like me, I worry shes above my league so to speak and would never like a guy like me. I really like who she is and i have so much fun around her.

Can anyone help me out? Is there a huge flaw with my looks? Tips from the women out there? Pics of me: http://imgur.com/a/6fOuthq

[ananthiM]

If you feel your ugly and no one to date, So i think you need to look for a who looks average too. Don't go for a beautiful girl if you that you look ugly. look for average girl and spend time with her its not like just one meet and you will be dating , hangout travel roam click pics eat drink just spend good time. everything doesn't happen on the first meet itself

[Ella]

I have seen your pics and you aren't in anyway ugly or unattractive. You are just perfect! However, I think your problem is inferiority complex.

I have been hanging out with this women for the last little while but I think im just too unattractive for her to like me, I worry shes above my league so to speak and would never like a guy like me.

This is where your problem lies; you feel less of yourself. You must realize that no woman is above your league. Until you build your self-confidence, no woman will be attracted to you.

[Bradwin]

It's not always about having an awesome physique or a fat bank account. Most of the time, it's the way you talk to women and the way they perceive you. Regardless of the number of attractive guys around, women will find you appealing if you apply the following methods.

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1. "I am Rejection-Proof". Ironically, the secret to being rejection-proof has something to do with not fearing rejection. Some men cannot take rejection lightly, they persist even when the girl already said no. To the girl, these men seem desperate, needy and creepy. If a girl shows signs of being prima donna, and she makes you go through hoops while talking to her, leave. This way, she won't feel power over you and will be less in control of the situation. If she liked you in the first place, she will try harder to keep your attention, not the other way around.

2. "Why should I talk to you?". A guy who seems friendly but distant inspires awe in women. Women will find your attention a prize they have to fight for. A woman will flirt harder, preen more and feel eager to compete with other women for your attention. A woman's need for approval from you is a powerful psychology prompt.

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[smackie9]

You need to stop being shy because confidence is very attractive and not just for attractive people. You are just talking yourself out of doing it...no more excuses! Change your attitude/change your life.