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At first i want to sorry about my bad english. I'm from Poland and it's not my native language. I had to help myself a little with google translate but I hope everything is understandable.
Hello. I'm 16 years old. At the beginning of December, I met a girl on Facebook. She's 15 years old. At the beginning chatting with each other was very pleasant, we had similar interests and views on the world. I learned that she goes to the same school as me (I didn't know it before, my school is quite large) which made me happy, I thought we would be able to see each other more often. After a few days of writing on Facebook we met in reality. The meeting was short and really spontaneous, none of us had planned it before. We agreed 15 minutes earlier, cause she was in my neighborhood. The meeting was very nice, a short walk around the city. We had a really good conversation. At school we did not really pay attention to ourselves (or at least she did). Even I was wondering if it's not my fault, because the first day after meeting as we passed in the corridor she told me "Hey". I was very unfortunately busy talking with my friend nad I did'nt hear it. Afterwards she hasn't spoken to me at school, but she didn't look offended. I was also very afraid to speak, cause she always was going with her friends. During that time we were chatting regularly on Facebook. I even noticed she was trying to get us closer. She started to trust me and often spoke a lot of things in trust. She wrote more and more tender words. She even once asked "Do you care if I like you?" . Now I know how big mistake I made but then not knowing how to answer, I told her jokingly: "Is this one of those female questions that will not matter what you answer and the answer will be bad anyway?" And on that point it ended. Other time she wrote out of the blue without any context "It makes no sense. I see that nothing will come out of it". I asked her several times what did she mean, but she always replied with "Figure it out" or "Perhaps I will tell you in the future" but she still wasn’t seem to be offended. She chatted with me very willingly but I noticed she wanted to worse our relationship a little. After some time she started to write messages like "Ginger hair are the most beatiful in the world and I want to my future boyfriend has them" (I'm dark), or she wrote straight out that in her opinion I’m ugly. But if in her eyes I’m ugly what was the point of these games at the beginning? Something does not fit here. It is also worth adding that neither I nor she had any "bigger" relation with opposing sex before. Honestly, I do not know what to think about all this: /
Hello. I'm 16 years old. At the beginning of December, I met a girl on Facebook. She's 15 years old. At the beginning chatting with each other was very pleasant, we had similar interests and views on the world. I learned that she goes to the same school as me (I didn't know it before, my school is quite large) which made me happy, I thought we would be able to see each other more often. After a few days of writing on Facebook we met in reality. The meeting was short and really spontaneous, none of us had planned it before. We agreed 15 minutes earlier, cause she was in my neighborhood. The meeting was very nice, a short walk around the city. We had a really good conversation. At school we did not really pay attention to ourselves (or at least she did). Even I was wondering if it's not my fault, because the first day after meeting as we passed in the corridor she told me "Hey". I was very unfortunately busy talking with my friend nad I did'nt hear it. Afterwards she hasn't spoken to me at school, but she didn't look offended. I was also very afraid to speak, cause she always was going with her friends. During that time we were chatting regularly on Facebook. I even noticed she was trying to get us closer. She started to trust me and often spoke a lot of things in trust. She wrote more and more tender words. She even once asked "Do you care if I like you?" . Now I know how big mistake I made but then not knowing how to answer, I told her jokingly: "Is this one of those female questions that will not matter what you answer and the answer will be bad anyway?" And on that point it ended. Other time she wrote out of the blue without any context "It makes no sense. I see that nothing will come out of it". I asked her several times what did she mean, but she always replied with "Figure it out" or "Perhaps I will tell you in the future" but she still wasn’t seem to be offended. She chatted with me very willingly but I noticed she wanted to worse our relationship a little. After some time she started to write messages like "Ginger hair are the most beatiful in the world and I want to my future boyfriend has them" (I'm dark), or she wrote straight out that in her opinion I’m ugly. But if in her eyes I’m ugly what was the point of these games at the beginning? Something does not fit here. It is also worth adding that neither I nor she had any "bigger" relation with opposing sex before. Honestly, I do not know what to think about all this: /
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