Advice needed

[Ben84]

Nm. Lol I’m just driving myself nuts over nothing. Why the hell are women so damn confusing?

[Becky]

Women are confusing to men who don't pay attention to a woman's need. Pay attention to your woman and you won't be in confusion anymore.

[Bradwin]

Why is it so difficult for us men to understand women?

The simple answer is that women are programmed differently than us men. Evolutionary and psychological forces have shaped men and women in ways that that still affect us in today's modern society. Women are far more emotional creatures than us men, and are therefore more in tuned to their feelings. For some women, emotions are facts.

Even though women might not always make sense to men, there is an irrational logic to women that can be understood. There is a way to figure women out, but you first need to know the secrets.

Here are my top 3 secrets for understanding women and the female mind. Use this knowledge to your own advantage, and you'll triple your success with women and dating.

Understanding Women Secret #1 - Women like to play

Women hate certainty. It is true. She might say that she wants to know everything about you, but if you give away too much about yourself, too soon, it will kill her attraction for you.

If a woman knows exactly how you feel for her, it will lower your attractiveness in her eyes. A woman likes a little mystery in her man. Don't always give a woman a direct answer when she asks you a question. Don't always call her when she expects you to. And don't give her everything she wants of you. Play with her a bit, and let her want you more.

Teasing is great way to do this. When communicating with women, you need to be playful. Don't be afraid to make fun of her now and then like she's your spoiled little sister. Find a little insecurity, and playfully tease her.

Women love this kind of thing, as long as the humor and teasing is not mean-spirited. Your goal is to tease to please.

Understanding Women Secret #2 - Women want to have fun

Women look for men who can help them escape. When a woman is with her man, she wants to relax and have fun; she doesn't want to think about her responsibilities in life.

Most guys act needy around women. They call her too much, text her every few minutes, and threaten her sense of personal freedom.

Most women are bored with their job, their family, and their regular routines. She needs to escape this boredom, and you're the Prince Charming to give this to her.

Here's your chance to be the fun and unpredictable guy for her, instead of the regular boring guy she's used to dating. Instead of going to a movie, how about going to an arcade to challenge her to some video games? Instead of taking her out for dinner, take her out to a see a live band. Go shopping with her to a funky store she's never been to before.

These kind of things allow her to escape her regular routine, and she'll subconsciously link all these good feelings to you.

Understanding Women Secret #3 - Don't try too hard

This one took me a while to figure out. Most guys are always thinking about what to do, but sometimes it's just as much about what you DON'T do.

Working too hard to build attraction can make you seem desperate and needy. You never want to work too hard for a woman's approval. It is ironic, but women are generally more attracted to men who seem a bit distant at times, even indifferent. It is sometimes easier to get a woman more interested in you by spending less energy in trying to attract her.

You can never force a woman to like you. Trying too hard will only backfire on you. Be cool, relax, and take it easy. Let her work for it as well. Women are attracted to men who can challenge them. Don't be afraid to pull back every now and then and make her chase you.

That's it! Don't make it more complicated than it is. To get more women chasing after you, all you need to know are a few simple techniques and a few psychological principles.

Now get out there and meet some hot women!

[smackie9]

OP give us some examples. You are too vague.

[Pinky Kumar]

Why the hell are women so damn confusing?

I am not going to split the answer in genders, as any of the genders can have the same faults. So I will ask to myself,

What makes a person hard to understand?

*Fear drives people to confussion, if it goes over the top of the mind.
*Sometimes when pride is wrong used, for the incorrect action. It makes people close the eyes to a possible mistake or avoid the existence of the feelings of others.
*Excessive criticism reduces patience and it makes a conversation or situation lacks of consistency. It also makes a person insubstantial in the way of view.
*Lack of understanding about values. This leads one to be vulnerable and confused when something comes to happen.
*When the ‘’heart’’ is like a shell or when is too flabby. The person is not sensitive about the own needs or others or a situation.