A date

[nanvas]

I met someone who invited me to his apt I feel I can bus it someone and be respected. He had on tv pictures of women pretty ones in bathing suits and he masturbated he wanted me to cook and spend the night even one week sure to get screwed. He became forceful what do you think of this behavior.

[Sofia]

His behaviour is immoral and unacceptable. I will advice you never see him again.

[nanvas]

He would get angry if I did not spend the night or wear a dress he said I was not trying to please him.

[Drake]

He just wants you for sex and nothing more, and he'll dump you when he eventually gets it. Be wise, and stay away from him.

[nanvas]

Thank you.

[nanvas]

Why can't men use people their own age. They go after older women is it because they feel we are dumb.

[nanvas]

Every man to me is a douche bag

[nanvas]

Why do I get picked on ? I feel dumb.

[SaltySweet]

Drop him. He's trying to control/manipulate you and you deserve so much better. Don't let yourself be sculpted into someone who'll turn their head down to please him. Find someone who'll love you for you and lift you into a better person for your own sake, okay?

[smackie9]

You are not getting picked on, you choose not to stay out of a man's apartment. They are called red flags. A) man wants you to come to his place. It means he wants sex. Solution, don't go, stop seeing him. His intentions are just sex. Pretty simple. B) a man doesn't want to get to know you. Means he doesn't care about you. Solution, don't go on another date, stop all contact. C) On a date, the guy starts to quiz you or talks about sex in detail. Solution. Get up and leave the date. Don't sit their like a stunned bunny and take it. D) a guy that becomes aggressive or forceful. Solution, SAY NO! leave, cut off all contact. E )When a guy makes you feel uncomfortable, Solution, listen to your gut instinct, and cut the date short, and leave. Cut off all contact, do not respond to messages. You own no explanation.

What you should do? Accept dates that are outside of the apartment. He has to earn your affections by treating you with respect, and show he has an honest interest in you. Accept a man that is willing to be kind, and able to make compromises, and is accepting. Don't worry hun, they are out there.

[nanvas]

Thank you for responses. Much appreciated.

[nanvas]

I don't care who is out there or not I never had luck with men and that never has changed