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I have been dating a guy for around two months and a half now, who I met on badoo.
Our chemistry is electric and we said to take it slow to see where things go with u. I told him I was freshly broken up.
He told me he was single for about two yrs.
So i acted based on that info.
He asked me if i had fb and i said no that i had closed my profile plus he asked me if i had twitter to follow me but unfortunately i didnt so we added each other on linked in
But some things didnt seem to be right. For example he told me that he owns a three bedroom house and every few months his mother is coming over to stay with him because his father died and she is alone.
This seemed a bit fishy for starters. Also, while he he was initially hinting to invite me to his house and all, he insisted then to come to my house no invitation to his. At the end he came once to my house and we had intercourse. When I asked him to stay the night, he said he needed the next morning to take the car so he needed to be back.
I didnt meet his friends and he didnt mine. Although he was again hinting me meeting his in the context of helping me with things like installing a new TV.
He was hinting also to go holidays together.
So, I decided to snoop on twitter a bit.
I found some posts that made me angry, First, I found one post from January 2018 that he was talking about his father in law. Another one a photo of his house that i zoomed on the background and i saw blurry weding photos and one engagement announcement his name and a woman's name. That was from March 1 month before we met.
And another from march which he said 'My unborn child'
I was so furious that i confronted me via text
He told me he is separated and is a part of his past that he aint proud of and that he knows he should have told me and he was waiting the right moment.
I told him that his posts suggested that he is expecting a kid. He said that this was a joke between him and his cousin that she is expecting and that they are really close.
He told me he is seeing a therapist because he is struggling with depression andfeels he failed in life.]
After our argument he told me his stomach flared up and went to the hospital. He said he will have keyhole surgery to see what it is that is causing this. He begged me to make up but I said I cant do anything without proper explanation from him because i deserve one.
Last contact was on Fri from him that he is gonna go to his home country to visit his mother and get keyhole surgery.
He told me also he wants to lose weight so that i dont see a 'fat boy' anymore. (he isnt fat)
I said that i liked him anyway as he was.
Anyway im not gonna contact again by myself I wanna see if he will give me this explanation which so far i dont receive.
I have very mixed thoughts. And so many question marks
Our chemistry is electric and we said to take it slow to see where things go with u. I told him I was freshly broken up.
He told me he was single for about two yrs.
So i acted based on that info.
He asked me if i had fb and i said no that i had closed my profile plus he asked me if i had twitter to follow me but unfortunately i didnt so we added each other on linked in
But some things didnt seem to be right. For example he told me that he owns a three bedroom house and every few months his mother is coming over to stay with him because his father died and she is alone.
This seemed a bit fishy for starters. Also, while he he was initially hinting to invite me to his house and all, he insisted then to come to my house no invitation to his. At the end he came once to my house and we had intercourse. When I asked him to stay the night, he said he needed the next morning to take the car so he needed to be back.
I didnt meet his friends and he didnt mine. Although he was again hinting me meeting his in the context of helping me with things like installing a new TV.
He was hinting also to go holidays together.
So, I decided to snoop on twitter a bit.
I found some posts that made me angry, First, I found one post from January 2018 that he was talking about his father in law. Another one a photo of his house that i zoomed on the background and i saw blurry weding photos and one engagement announcement his name and a woman's name. That was from March 1 month before we met.
And another from march which he said 'My unborn child'
I was so furious that i confronted me via text
He told me he is separated and is a part of his past that he aint proud of and that he knows he should have told me and he was waiting the right moment.
I told him that his posts suggested that he is expecting a kid. He said that this was a joke between him and his cousin that she is expecting and that they are really close.
He told me he is seeing a therapist because he is struggling with depression andfeels he failed in life.]
After our argument he told me his stomach flared up and went to the hospital. He said he will have keyhole surgery to see what it is that is causing this. He begged me to make up but I said I cant do anything without proper explanation from him because i deserve one.
Last contact was on Fri from him that he is gonna go to his home country to visit his mother and get keyhole surgery.
He told me also he wants to lose weight so that i dont see a 'fat boy' anymore. (he isnt fat)
I said that i liked him anyway as he was.
Anyway im not gonna contact again by myself I wanna see if he will give me this explanation which so far i dont receive.
I have very mixed thoughts. And so many question marks
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