Girl i see now has a crazy stalking boyfriend...little advice needed :)

[geartips]

Hello to all
I will try to keep this thread little bit shorter so you can read it better.
Recently i met a girl who is few years older then me, she has a sort of boyfriend but she doesn't like him at all, she wants to break up with him for over 1 year now but he is still stalking her in some way and somehow they end up again together...long story
Anyhow, what is your advice in secretly dating this girl? I was with her few times, but i am always on needles sort of speak if he will come, or he will call her or something similar and he will catch us together..I like the girl, but i am not in love with her or anything, i would love to hang around with her and see how it goes, but this guy is problem..
She clearly states even to him that she doesn't want anymore with him but he is like a crazy person who is opsessive over hear and he always forgives her all and wants to come back etc..
She is little bit wild about that, and i think she likes to manipulate some man...anyhow i don't want anything serious with her, but again i can't see her if i have fear each time that he will bang on door or something similar...

What is your advice and have you been on similar situation?

Thanks

[bunnyhabit]

you are better off not messing around with her if she keeps going back to a guy she doesn't like at all. either she is lied to you or there is something mentally defective with her being subservient to a guy she doesn't like.

of course she could be playing with both of you especially based on your comments she likes to manipulate guys. she really doesn't need to choose if both of you keep forgiving her bad behavior.

[Clinton]

She has a boyfriend and you need to have that in mind. Even if she says she doesn't love him and wants to leave him, but the fact that she still goes back to him shows that she loves him.

So, it therefore means she is cheating on her boyfriend with you. I'll advice you stay away from her.