I don't know if I should tell her

[Jackdean]

so... I'm going straight to the point.
I'm in love with (one of) my best friend(s), and I don't know if I should tell her.
well... we say 'I love you' to each other, but for her it's just a normal thing I guess.
She's flirty with me, but that's her character, she's flirty with everyone.
She did admit to having though about how sex with me would be... but I don't know the details
well now... the question is: Should I tell her I actually really love her? I think even if she didn't love me back she would take it alright, but should I risk ruining the thing that we now have?
so well, that's about it, she's a wonderfull person, by far the best friend I've ever had, and I'm afraid I'm going to lose her either way.

[Brett]

What if a woman you really feel attraction for doesn't see you as a lover, but as a friend? Do you simply give up? No. You should try your best to seduce her.

You can get out of the friend zone if you really try. Before we get to the tips, there's an important question you must answer: are you needy? Neediness is a huge factor when seducing women who think of you as a friend.

If you're not completely fine when she says no to your date requests, you may be very needy and this turns women off big time. Women are used to men who always seek their approval before doing anything. These guys are their friends; people they can turn down and get away with it.

The key to turning her into your girlfriend is losing your desperation. She can sense that you're desperate for her approval if you make it clear that you'll cry if she rejects you.

How to be completely immune to desperate behavior - use these three techniques...

1. Variety of options - Once you realize that there are many more women in the world who would jump at the chance to date you, you will lose your desperation. The best part of having this attitude is she can feel it too. If you talk and act like you have other plans, she will take notice and start competing for your affection.

2. Independence - Think and decide without asking her opinion. The more she thinks you don't need her to keep a busy social life, the more she will miss having you around. Women want what they cannot have. If you're too easy, she will not go for you (she will try the more difficult men first).

3. Access her emotions - There's a subtle technique you can use to make her want you. It's hypnosis. It's a proven method to 'access' her emotions and make her feel emotionally connected to you.

[Lily]

If you have a close girl friend and you can't seem to make a move on her, you're missing out on a world of fun just because your relationship is complicated. Listen, a girl is a girl and your pal is no different. If you can distance yourself from the thoughts of "what if you lose your friendship", and simply go for her like you would normally, great.

Here's a warning. Do the following methods only if you're sure you really have fallen for the girl of your dreams, because these could easily turn her into your stalker.

How To Turn Your Friend Into Your Lover - Using 3 Simple But Deadly Effective Strategies

Strategy #1. Changes in Your Relationship

If you're used to going out with her only when she's free, and getting lost whenever she's out with a guy she just met, turn the tables. Better yet, don't pamper her when she just feels like hanging out with you because she's bored. Scarcity is a great strategy if you're starting to become a fixture in a girl's life.

Strategy #2. Play the Field

One of the best ways to avoid being taken for granted as a "best guy friend" is to become more aware of women around you. These women I'm talking about are not the type that you want to befriend, but the type you want to date. Maybe one of the reasons why your gal pal does not see you as a boyfriend is your tendency to hesitate in seduction. To remedy this, get used to flirting with other women.

Strategy #3. Use Hypnosis

There's a way of speaking to women that works in terms of getting them emotionally attached to you in a manner that isn't at all platonic. I'm talking about this hypnosis tool called Fractionation. Using this strategy, you will be able to seduce a woman psychologically as well as emotionally. Do this "controversial" trick if you want to make any woman fall in love in less than 15 minutes.

Fractionation is a step-by-step formula which takes a woman through a "journey" where she will experience both happiness and sadness in quick successions. Using nothing but words, you are able to make a woman feel emotionally connected to you quickly - and in the process build emotional dependency on you.

Fractionation is controversial because it is said to be able to make stalkers out of women. Also, it can be used by anyone no matter what his seduction abilities are. If you pull this off successfully, you will be able to make her love you quickly, using nothing but the power of your words. It's explosive stuff!