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So my ex and I broke up just under 2 months ago (we were together for 9 months and each other firsts for a lot). I broke up with him but then went back on it and he felt like he didn't treat me the way I deserved and didn't have time, and wanted to work on himself. In the couple weeks after, he made it well known he still wanted me and him to talk like we used to (and he also said he saw a future with me). But he kinda made it known that I would have to be the one to text him first. Later I got a little ticked off that he wasn't really acting like he wanted to be friends bc he was being nice and then like kinda sassy lol, so I have been non-contact for a month. I go to school with him and he avoids me like I am the plague. I will try to make eye contact and he will dart his eyes away every time. And just a few days ago, my friend said that he did like a double glance side eye at me while at a school event. So tonight after the football game, we went to Whataburger (I'm sorry this is so high school). I sat in a booth behind him but it was to where we both were facing each other. A few mins in I could've sworn I saw him trying to sneakily look at me like with a side eye and as soon as I made eye contact he looked away. Literally seconds later he gets up and starts messing with his ex-crush, and he KNOWS how I feel about her considering we have had arguments over her. And a couple weeks ago, after a pre-school event, I was at a stoplight. This truck passed in front of me and I noticed the driver had turned his head to look like at my car, after it passed I saw it was his truck (he has a sticker on it). Continuing, after Whataburger, I hung out with one of his friends (we have mutual friends) he told me how much of a man-hoe he has became after we broke up. And to be honest, he has just kinda gone off the deep end (not bettering himself at all smh). After I was with his friend, I texted him (for the first time in over a month) asking if I could ask him a question. He replied within 5 min and I asked why he was avoiding me like I am the plague and what I did to deserve that and how claimed he wanted to be friends. He said I hadn't talked to him and how I have never attempted to talk to him and "you can't text me?". I proceeded to say he has been the one ignoring me and asked if he was mad. He said he's chilling (whatever). I just don't get it..... Like he's kinda acting like this one time I unintentionally hurt his feelings and he completely went cold on me and avoided me but would like observe me from afar. I eventually was able to get him to treat me normally but it was a lot of begging, reassurance, and explaining. I have even asked some guys about it and they all just tell me he is weird and they don't know why he's acting like that. I know I was special to him and he was the same with me, I guess I just don't now how to deal with it. And the thing is, he is one of those guys who just doesn't really express how he truly feels. And he doesn't really talk about stuff that bothers him a whole lot (AKA he has a big ego and a lot of pride).
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