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This is hard to talk about putting yourself out there. Anyway, Ive been speaking to a woman for about a week quite. bit. She lives like 50 miles away, is bright, attractive. 44 yo. In us getting to know each other somehow we get to joking about young men coming onto women in their 40s etc. I don't know how it came up but she reveals she's bagged 3 men in their 20s. One was 21 yo. Less than half her age. It was a definite red flag for me but I couldn't figure out why. Certainly, my insecurities may be at play here but here is also a question of character. Does this reflect on her character and what does it mean moving forward. She then reveals she was cheated on right before that happened. So that seems to be her motivation and I get that. Turning the tables I just don't see how I ever bed down a 21 yo at my age. It just grosses me out and makes me wonder if this relationship is doomed to fail or should I just deal and see what happens? She and I will be meeting in the next couple days. I think she has some idea that it bothers me. What do you guys think?
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