How to make a man fall I love when he says he doesn't want to be serious

[yourstrulywithlove]

Hi everyone,
Your advice is truly appreciated. Just little about myself, I'm 35, been online dating for the past 10 yrs with no luck won't get into the details. I am a professional and financially very stable and live alone.
I met a guy online, we text back and forth, there was a time we didn't text for 1 week. But whenever I texted or called he would get back to me right away. He told me he is very busy with work. We finally arranged a date, I ended up going to his place and we did sleep with each other. A few days later he revealed he has a child, I don't have a problem with that just was upset he didn't tell me from the beginning. He could hear over the phone he was upset, and I started complaining he said you are perfect and that you don't need to change yourself and you are a good catch etc. He did say he is not really ready for a relationship because he is trying to work on his daughter's life. He always says loving things and he keeps reminding me that I should not rely on him for anything serious but just casually dating. He says he is not sleeping or going out with anyone else, as I am doing as well. We have not officially gone out we typically are always at his place. We have good convo he likes talking to me he respects my opinion and asks a lot of advice from me. I really like him and want to see is there any potential for something serious? I am being very patient and making sure not to look desperate and playing it cool. How long should I wait it out to see if he might change his mind and will his mind even change?
Thanks.

[Jerome]

The secret psychology that makes men fall in love is a simple one. It gets right to the heart of how men go through the process of committing to one woman for the rest of their life, and has nothing to do with any of the previously-held myths that have served only to confuse women for centuries. So what exactly does this mean? It is the simple recognition that we are all programmed to follow three distinct phases during our mate-seeking endeavors.

That three-step process that makes men fall in love begins with attraction. Attraction is often misunderstood when it comes to relationships, as many people focus far too much on the physical aspects of beauty. Yet, if beauty were enough, there would be no beautiful women unable to hold onto the man of their dreams - and there definitely are plenty of women who fall into that category. The type of beauty that attracts men is both physical and internal. Yes, the personality matters as much as the outer shell - sometimes even more so!

Most women never advance further into a man's heart than the first stage of attraction simply because he soon discovers that the woman in question is nothing more than a beautiful package. She may be a well-rounded individual with a sparkling personality, but if all she focuses on is attracting him with her body, he will soon assume that she has nothing more to offer. The secret psychology that makes men fall in love with women requires that the woman have more depth - or else he will soon lose interest and never progress to the second phase of the love process.

If, however, the man instinctively surmises that the woman he is with is more than just a pretty face, he is open to that second phase. The second phase involves developing a friendship. Men have certain expectations when it comes to their friends, and chief among these is that they be accepted without question, reservation, or judgment. This is one area in which men and women often reveal very different expectations.

Men may laugh about something that their friends do, but they never judge who their friends are, how they dress, or the choices they make in life. To be a man's friend, he expects the same from you. If you can avoid the gossip and drama that characterizes many women's relationships with one another, then you will have discovered one aspect of what makes men fall in love.

Only when these first two phases are in place can the third phase of the love process begin. It is that this third stage that everything that makes a man fall in love solidifies into the commitment necessary for a long-lasting relationship. In other words, once he is attracted to you on some level, and has developed a real friendship with you, he will begin to develop feelings of commitment toward you and recognize that he needs you in his life.

[Becky]

Men fall in love the opposite of women. Goosebumps all over their skin tells a woman he's the one I picture marrying while men never think about that until the wedding planning is almost done. Every woman should know how men fall in love and save themselves the unsuccessful problem solving.

Men fall in love not by chemical reaction but rational comprehension. Love is just a feeling that women experience but for men, it's a brain process that finally lets them know there is a real future with this person. Women get that feeling as visions of their dress and honeymoon take over.

Initially men are driven by sexual desire but that doesn't fuel them to try relationships. Men are shy which is why they take time opening up and voicing their emotions, they're afraid of rejection. Love is major for a man and they put everything into love so to possibly be turned down, is frightening.

This is where women can make the move. History was written for men to do it all and the women ran the house but now women have power and ambitions to get what they want. Give simple affectionate gestures to let him know you love him and he'll feel that assurance his heart won't be turned down.

While he reaches that pivotal moment where he has an epiphany that you are his woman for all time, enjoy what the relationship has been so far and cherish each moment you experience until he catches up. Men fall in love slowly but surely so just be patient.

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[smackie9]

I'll keep this simple...keep your legs closed because sex doesn't buy you a relationship. A man has to prove your worth to him, by taking you out on proper dates, asking questions about you, and above all else his honesty in his expectations and intentions..sounds old fashioned but it's true. To have a man interested in you is not a long process...a man's attraction and interest is like popcorn going off in a microwave. It's either going to happen or it doesn't. Like I always say go by their actions, not what comes out of their mouth. There are plenty of behavior types to avoid like love bombing, those who keep pouring the drinks, don't text much between dates, ones who take forever to even ask you out, those who pull you into bed on the first/second date,etc. It's not about "being the one" for a man, but finding "the one" for you, that treats you the way you expect to be treated. Change your attitude, change your life.