When is the right time to meet the family?

[Yankeestar]

I am dating someone exclusively as of Saturday...here’s my dilemma. I worry too much in relationships. It’s now the holidays but we just met so clearly too soon to go to his family house. And Christmas Eve and Christmas and probably New Years as well I’ll spend with my son and it’s way too soon to bring him into my sons life. My question is at what point should I be introduced to his family and at what point should we have a discussion (if any) about being together on the holidays? I can’t relax because I’m not worrying too much, and I don’t want to scare him off! He even mention how glad he is that he met me because he was so lonely....

[bunnyhabit]

you should broach both questions with him and come to a mutually acceptable time frame. it is unlikely he will be worried as you since neither is earth shaking. it is not uncommon for guys to intro girls to family early in game so overnights are understood

[Scot]

There isn't a time frame to when you should meet his family and he meet yours. What's more important is the chemistry between you two. If he's so much in love with you and you know it, then there is no limitation as to what you can do. However, I'll advice you allow him lead the relationship, and don't try to make the moves. Let him be the one to initiate the next level of the relationship.