I kind of confessed while we were intoxicated

[Tori90]

Hi guys so I'm new to the forum and I badly need an advice. This is not the usual hetero attraction as I'm attracted to a girl right now. I'm a girl, had long and short term relationships with guys before. I recently transfered to another company, made a few friends and etc. I met this girl at the office and I instantly felt comfortable around her, one time I asked her if we can have a few drinks after work and she said yes, she kind of confessed that she's bi but currently dating a guy right now, not a relationship though. I didn't care about it by then but as I grew closer to her something in me felt like I want to be with her. I had a relationship with a girl before but didn't work out and lasted for a few months.. left her for the stupidest reason, for a new guy (I initially wanted to have a typical family, the norm) I opened this too to the girl I like right now. So here's the thing, we had a party in our office and her and I had a little too much to drink - I could not control myself right there and I was kind of all over her, when she talked to guys I had moments like telling her to just come beside me and stop talking to them and then she said "youre such a jealous girl are you!?". I didnt mind it. When she decided to go home because shes really tired and drunk, thats when I couldnt help myself - I didn't want her to go. So I was holding her arm and told her please dont go, I came here for you. She then held my hands and we were facing each other.. i told her that I want you here.. her eyes were locked on me and kept looking at my lips, I swear I could have kissed her, but I kept it to myself and instead looked away and just bit my lip. I couldnt kissed her since there were people around us, our friends that weren't aware of my feelings. I then felt her hand on my waist, my face and calling me babe. I told her I want you here.. then she suddenly said she likes someone else. I said I dont care. She didnt respond. I told her can I bring you to your place at least? (I honestly just wanted to be alone with her in the car, talk) but she said "I cant bring you home" while looking down. Thats when she just took Uber and I went home too as soon as shes gone.

I really like her. But I don't know if I should pursue this. I'm conflicted with the way she acted that night and the thing she said that she likes someone else? Did she misinterpret the thing that I said "Can I bring you to your place? I didn't wanna have sex with her. I just wanted us to be alone.

When I got home I sent her a text saying, "I'm sorry if I caught you off guard, I hope you got home safe" she then responded "hey relax, we're still going to have drinks soon" I just replied "I'm not even drunk". The next morning she said good morning with a smiley face and i said to you too.

Guys, I've never been in this position, any advice? Does she even like me too or she only acted that way because she's with alcohol in her system?

Insights and advices will be greatly appreciated.

[Judith]

You should be able to tell if she likes you with your everyday conversation at work. However, don't push too hard but allow her show interest as well.

[Olivia]

She obviously misinterpreted what you said and thought you wanted sex with her that night. You can't tell if she actually likes you now, but you will eventually know as time goes on.