Guy Blocked Me After I Ignored His Text Message

[kiwistwbry]

He hasn’t been committing to me, so I sent him this text…

“I chose you. Because I like who you are as a person. I know that you are caring and a good guy. But you don’t seem to know what you want. I do know what I want, and it is not us flirting at work but not hanging out outside of work. I deserve a guy who chooses me 100%. I see you but you don’t see me. I am sad but there’s nothing I can do, so we will just have to be nothing more than coworkers.. Just like I am with all of the other people we work with.”

His reply was, “K”

…7 hours later he texts “what are you doing?”

And when I didn’t reply, 3 minutes later he said “goodnight”

The next day I sent him a reply and noticed it didn’t say “delivered” at the bottom of the message.

He has in fact blocked me.

Any thoughts as to why??

[bunnyhabit]

because you closed the door on a meaningful relationship and he wasn't interested in a platonic friendship only with you. your message was quite harsh and pointed. you should have limited to a shorter more inquisitive gesture such as "i know that you are caring and a good guy. But i am unsure of what your intentions are toward me? i would appreciate your thoughts on this"

[kiwistwbry]

He had also told me he has a GF. I was wanting to be in an exclusive relationship with him. I felt like I was being used as a side chick. He kept initiating everything, like the flirting at work and “goodnight”...”see you tomorrow” texts. Do you think he was only looking for us to have a platonic relationship? I’m trying to understand your answer because it got me to thinking. Please elaborate... Thank you.

[bunnyhabit]

the approach (question) i proposed would have probably have gotten an answer to your questions or at least structured a discussion towards getting them answered. your response closed all doors except a possible strained platonic friendship which he obvi rejected. you scared him away from you...it's not to late too reignite a avenue for reconciliation by a simple admission that you overreacted and miss being close with him as before your mistake.

let me aware if further counsel is desired

[kiwistwbry]

Wow, I totally see what you’re saying now. And yes, I would like further counsel.