She ghosted me after speaking for just 10 days. Why!?

[Mixalis_Tzatziki]

sounds like you are heading down same path again. I bet you just chatted at party with her platonically without trying to hook her for the night . she stayed alone at party with you for a reason and it wasn't chatting only or she would have shadowed her gang.

No trust me I was definitely touching her a lot and flirting. She was into it, but not giving too much back, so I knew hooking up wasn't gona happen that night. She even posted a photo that she took of us together on Instragram after the party. I was convinced she is interested, so that's why I asked her for dinner, as opposed to the casual approach I took with the first girl.

Now im thinking maybe if she just got out of a relationship, she is just looking for friends, so thats why she didnt respond...

I'm thinking of sending this to her tomorrow if she still doesn't respond. "hey I'm just looking to make some new friends now tbh, nothing more nothing less and you seem like a fun person to hang out with. If u not up for it, no worries"

I mean I kinda feel now that maybe asking her out now was too soon. Also I did have fun with her, and i dont mind just being friends now either if thats all she wants.

[bunnyhabit]

don't crowd her. wait for a comeback. some gals don't check messages every day. she may be pondering best response to your invitation. just coming out of relationship maybe slowing her thinking or her ex maybe getting cozy again so she is at a cross road. she is not sure which way to turn. the posting and let you feel her up are definitely signs of interest.

[Mixalis_Tzatziki]

don't crowd her. wait for a comeback. some gals don't check messages every day. she may be pondering best response to your invitation. just coming out of relationship maybe slowing her thinking or her ex maybe getting cozy again so she is at a cross road. she is not sure which way to turn. the posting and let you feel her up are definitely signs of interest.

Well she never replied.
Really can't believe what I've done here....
The first girl it didn't go anywhere with cos I moved too slow. This new one doesn't even want to talk to me now because she probably thinks I asked her out way too quick. Looking back the timing was not good. She hadn't even replied to my last messages when we were chatting the night before, and I just sent her the message asking. Could've just waited for her to resume the conversation before I just asked.

I went ahead and sent that msg on Saturday night that I said I was thinking about sending, she never even read that.
Why couldn't she just say something. Not even getting a response feels a million times worse now.

Can she really be so put off now just for this? Then again I'm not an idiot, girls with high interest level say yes even if the guy asks her out a day after meeting. So not sure now what it is.
Is there anyway to even get her talking to me again?

[bunnyhabit]

crowding girls is a turn off. she views you as a pest so ignores you. you probably pushed her away from you by overbearing texts. doubtful any interest in you now. she was just one night hormone flinging with you but you didn't take it to home base then got serious on her. she is probably hormonal fling with different dudes till break up hurt subsides. been there done that, too.