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[ztyu123]

This person that I've been friends with for about a year has been distancing themselves and blocked me for no reason at all. Was I used from the beginning?

This person and I first met about a year ago and exchanged phone numbers and communicated non-stop daily. We hung out often. I was complimented and praised by him often for being a good friend. When we first started talking, he was concerned if we missed a day or two of communication and contacted me. Now he can go weeks without contacting me..using the excuse of being busy when I addressed him about the situation. He also tells me now that he doesn't have to talk to me every single day now..but yet, in the beginning, we talked and texted daily nonstop. He tells me that he doesn't speak to anyone often, but yet I see him constantly on his phone. I've been asking to hang out with him as we use to since October..all he does is make excuses about not being able to because he's super busy, but yet I see him on Facebook going to parties and bars constantly with others. Just last week, I went from a "damn good friend" to being blocked in days. He tells me that he's doing better in life and is leaving all the negativity behind when I confronted him yesterday. He lives close by, so we often run into each other... I ran into him and several times he has been saying to me that we'll talk about it...we haven't yet.. we use to greet by hugging, he doesn't even want to hug me or shake my hand.. he use to tell me that he's so glad that we met, now he treats me as if I have a disease. On Saturday he told me that I was a damn good friend, now I'm blocked and he wants nothing to do with me anymore. Was I being used all along?

[Victoria]

He has obviously met another woman, and that explains why he lost interest in you. I strongly suggest you move on with your life and forget about him.

[Clinton]

Men generally act this way when they have fallen out of love with a woman. So, he's obviously not attracted to you anymore. However, he was initially attracted to you, and so you weren't used.

[ztyu123]

I'm 34 f and he's 42 m
This person that I've been friends with for about a year has been distancing themselves and blocked me for no reason at all. Was I used from the beginning or is he bipolar or something?
This person and I first met about a year ago and exchanged phone numbers and communicated non-stop daily. We hung out often. I was complimented and praised by him often for being a good friend. When we first started talking, he was concerned if we missed a day or two of communication and contacted me. Now he can go weeks without contacting me..using the excuse of being busy when I addressed him about the situation. He also tells me now that he doesn't have to talk to me every single day..but yet, in the beginning, we talked and texted daily nonstop. He tells me that he doesn't speak to anyone often, but yet I see him constantly on his phone. I've been asking to hang out with him as we use to since October..all he does is make excuses about not being able to because he's super busy, but yet I see him on Facebook going to parties and bars constantly with others. Just last week, I went from a "damn good friend" to being blocked in days. I've treated him like a friend all along nothing more, We had just hung out the day before, and he told me he had a great time and I was a damn good friend. even called me to say goodnight, and told me that he was glad that we were friends and met ... the next day all of this happened.. I am ..just confused.. on some forums, I've posted on people were suggesting that maybe he was bipolar or something.. we live close by, so we often run into each other often.. I ran into him and asked him about that, and he told me there was no one that he was seeing.. literally in a day..smh.. He tells me that he's doing better in life and is leaving all the negativity behind when I confronted him yesterday. He has never told me during the course of our friendship that I was negative ever. On Saturday he told me that I was a damn good friend, now I'm blocked and he wants nothing to do with me anymore. Was I being used all along?




I’ve run into him quite often since living soo close by, and he tells me that we’ll talk about it like( we’ve always done over breakfast ) but yet we haven’t had that talk yet… it’s been 3 weeks since he has told me that.. every time i see him he tells me that… i haven’t received any phone call/ text, letter, knock on the door yet..
I've treated him like a friend all along nothing more, We had just hung out the day before, and he told me he had a great time and I was a damn good friend. even called me to say goodnight, and told me that he was glad that we were friends and met ... the next day all of this happened.. I am ..just confused.. on some forums, I've posted on people were suggesting that maybe he was bipolar or something.. we live close by, so we often run into each other often.. I ran into him and asked him about that, and he told me there was no one that he was seeing.. literally in a day..smh