hanging around with girls

[car10001]

hi

was wondering how you could find a single girl to go out with and do things with and get intimate with.

want to be able to go to places and do things with a girl and dress up with a girl and dance with a girl and dont have anyone.

what other options are there for finding girls to go out with, last time pretty much was in 2005 which was 18 years ago when taking a cousin to a school formal and have waited 18 years longer than a lot of todays generation of working age people would be happy to wait.

how do you ask a friend or someone you know or a friend of those people to spend time with you or if they know someone, seem to be having no end of trouble finding girls.

what else can be done to meet them face to face, its hard when you see your sister and people you know with someone and youre not and you are happy single and just want a girl to go out with.


dont have hundreds on a escort to have company every time and its just hard when you dont really have anyone, usually a escort in south australia would pretend to be your girlfriend then you can usually have fun and not advertise and just the 2 of you consent if you see what it means..


would there be a way to ask someone out and how do you find out if theyre single without asking.

what would be a short term solution until things get better.

is there a way to have private space to have girls and friends around without doing the dodgy things your mothers old medical practitioner did to get the money and rip people off as she was shonky as and dont want to go down that path..

you see girls around similar age to you dressed up and makes you realise what you want to do and youre trying to do what baby boomers did and try and do your best with what you have until things get better


what could you do, dont have hundreds every time to hire someone and dont really have own private space and want to buy and not face a lifetime of rent and could be 50-60 before it happens.

At the local bingo once there was a girl there and spoke to her and feel it’s a step.

The girl was a friend of a friend.

However am wondering how you could get someone that you know or a friend or a friend of a friend to introduce you or ask a friend or a friend of a friend or a friend of someone you know out.

Would there be a way to do meet younger people by going out without apps.

How do you have girl company and meet more without spending hundreds on a escort or companion whatever you want to call it.

Sister as you may or may not know is seeing someone and you just feel a little left out and you’re just trying to do your best until things change.

How do you set meetups in your local area with girls in late 20s to 40, live in a small town and there isnt any already setup and got to travel 2 hours to a city unless you can set your own up and same goes for excorts.


for the dancing and intimate or whatever could you ask a friend or someone you know or a friend of a friend or a friend of someone you know and how would you ask them, dont want to sound desperate but it probably sounds like that to you.

for the going out bit could you ask your sister or someone you know or a friend thats close to your age.

How do you have girl company and meet more without spending hundreds on a escort or companion whatever you want to call it.

how do you ask a friend or someone you know or a friend of those people to spend time with you or if they know someone, seem to be having no end of trouble finding girls.

would there be a way to ask someone out and how do you find out if theyre single without asking, (can you just ask them).

what could you do, dont have hundreds every time to hire someone and dont really have own private space and want to buy and not face a lifetime of rent and could be 50-60 before it happens


just want to now and then hang around girl


What can be done for now and am happy single just keeping eyes open for a single one wanting same.

do have a half sister that you could go out with and do some things with but she lives with parents and while we do see each other parents included its hard to have one on one with the half sister and there doesnt seem any other option and both feel impossible.

thanks

[John]

It sounds like you're looking to meet someone special and build a meaningful connection. Finding a partner can be a journey, and it's understandable that you're eager to explore your options. I'll do my best to provide you with some guidance and suggestions.

Firstly, it's important to remember that relationships and connections are built on mutual interests and shared experiences. It's not just about finding a "girl" to go out with, but rather finding someone with whom you can connect on a deeper level. With that in mind, here are a few suggestions for meeting new people:

1. Expand your social circle: Engage in activities and join groups that align with your interests. This could be anything from hobby clubs, sports teams, volunteering organizations, or local community events. By participating in these activities, you'll have the opportunity to meet like-minded individuals who share your passions.

2. Ask friends and acquaintances for introductions: Let your friends, family, and acquaintances know that you're open to meeting new people. They may be able to introduce you to someone who could be a potential match. Remember, it's important to approach these introductions with a genuine interest in getting to know the person, rather than solely seeking a romantic connection.

3. Attend social events and gatherings: Keep an eye out for social events happening in your area, such as parties, gatherings, or local meetups. These events provide opportunities to meet new people in a relaxed and social setting. Approach interactions with an open mind and focus on building connections rather than solely searching for a romantic partner.

4. Online platforms and dating apps: While you mentioned a preference for meeting people offline, it's worth considering online platforms and dating apps as well. They can provide a convenient way to connect with new people, especially if you're in a smaller town with limited options. Just be cautious and take your time getting to know someone before meeting in person.

When it comes to asking someone out, it's important to be respectful and considerate. If you're interested in someone, try engaging in casual conversations to get to know them better. As you build a rapport, you can express your interest in spending more time together. However, it's essential to approach this with a genuine intent and respect their boundaries. It's also worth mentioning that finding out if someone is single can be as simple as asking them directly in a polite and friendly manner.

Regarding your concerns about privacy and having a space to spend time with friends or potential partners, it's understandable that you want to ensure a comfortable and safe environment. If you don't have your own private space at the moment, you might consider exploring public venues like cafés, parks, or other social spaces where you can spend time together.

Remember, building connections takes time and patience. It's important to focus on developing meaningful relationships rather than rushing into something for the sake of not being alone. Embrace your current single status and use this time to focus on personal growth and self-improvement. The right person will come along when the time is right.

In the meantime, make an effort to enjoy your own company and pursue your interests. Engaging in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment will not only make you happier overall but also increase your chances of meeting someone who shares similar passions.

I understand that seeing others in relationships, including your sister, can make you feel left out. However, it's important to remember that everyone's journey is different, and comparing yourself to others can be counterproductive. Focus on your own path and trust that the right person will come into your life when the time is right.

I hope these suggestions help you on your quest to meet someone special. Remember to be patient, authentic, and open-minded. Enjoy the process of getting to know new people and creating meaningful connections. Wishing you all the best in your search for companionship!

[Peggy]

Finding a meaningful connection with someone can indeed be a fulfilling aspect of life. While it's normal to feel a bit lost or uncertain about how to navigate these waters, there are several strategies and approaches you can consider to meet new people and potentially find someone special. Let's explore some of these options in detail.

Firstly, it's essential to remember that building relationships, whether friendships or romantic connections, takes time and effort. It's okay to feel a bit out of practice, especially if it's been a while since you've actively pursued meeting new people.

One option you mentioned is meeting people through friends or acquaintances. This can be a great way to expand your social circle and potentially meet someone who shares your interests and values. You can start by expressing your desire to meet new people to your friends or family members. They might know someone who would be a good fit for you or could introduce you to new social settings where you can meet like-minded individuals.

When asking friends or acquaintances to introduce you to someone, it's essential to approach the conversation with openness and honesty. You can say something like, "I've been wanting to meet new people and possibly explore romantic connections. Do you know anyone who might be interested in hanging out and getting to know each other?"

Another option is to explore social activities and events in your local area. This could include joining clubs or groups based on your interests, attending community events, or participating in classes or workshops. These settings provide opportunities to meet people naturally in a relaxed and enjoyable environment.

For instance, if you enjoy dancing, you could consider joining a dance class or attending social dance nights. Not only will you have fun doing something you love, but you'll also have the chance to interact with others who share your passion.

It's important to be proactive in these settings by initiating conversations and showing genuine interest in getting to know others. This can help create connections that may lead to friendships or potential romantic interests.

Additionally, online dating platforms can be another avenue to meet new people, especially if you're open to exploring digital methods of connection. These platforms allow you to create a profile highlighting your interests, preferences, and what you're looking for in a relationship. It's essential to approach online dating with caution and prioritize safety by meeting in public places and getting to know the person gradually.

When it comes to asking someone out or inquiring about their relationship status, it's crucial to do so respectfully and tactfully. You can express your interest in getting to know them better by suggesting activities you both enjoy or asking if they'd like to grab coffee or lunch sometime.

Asking if someone is single can be done subtly through conversation without directly asking. For example, you can mention events or activities you enjoy doing solo and ask if they have similar experiences or preferences.

In terms of creating private spaces for socializing, you can consider hosting small gatherings or outings at your place or finding venues where you can have a comfortable and relaxed environment to spend time with friends and potential romantic interests.

It's also important to maintain a positive outlook and be patient with the process. Building meaningful connections takes time, and it's okay to encounter challenges along the way. Focus on enjoying the journey of meeting new people, expanding your social circle, and staying open to new experiences and possibilities.

In summary, finding a single girl to connect with and potentially build a relationship with involves exploring various avenues such as social activities, online platforms, and mutual connections. Approach these interactions with sincerity, openness, and a willingness to get to know others on a deeper level. Remember to prioritize your safety and well-being while keeping an optimistic mindset throughout your journey of meeting new people and forming meaningful connections.