Should I go for her or not?

[Tuck27]

Hi guys..

I'm a 25 yrs old guy.

There's this lady that I would like to approach. She's working as a pharmacy assistant in a pharmacy store I usually get to pass by everyday I goes home from work.

After graduating last year in college.. I decided I would not look for a relationship as I would like to pursue my career because I would like to help my family.

I'm the eldest son and our family is in a bit of a tight situation financially. My family is rooting for me to be able to help them.. I'm an engineer and I am expected to work up the ladder to help our family - and that's what I also want to do.

But for the past 5 months that I am seeing her everytime I pass by at that pharmacy store.. and as I have observed her attitude, her looks and her character everytime I buy something just to have a reason to go to their shop -- I have come to like her very much..

Now I can't seem to stop thinking about her.. she seems to have a positive attitude, she is confident in her actions.. she's always smiling plus she's beautiful..

I'm finding it hard to control my feelings anymore.

Whether she will reject or entertain me is not the question..

I just want to try.. I don't want to regret it later on that I didn't try.

But there's this thing that I also want to build myself first (financially, career-wise, emotionally etc.) and I also want to help my family first financially.

Can I be friends with her while working towards my goals?

Or should I pursue my goals first before I approach her?

There's a possibility that next year I would be working abroad as the salary is higher.. I heard it would take a minimum of 1-2 years before I get to come back.. I'm afraid that after that time I can't see her anymore - maybe she'll get transferred to another branch and I won't be able to find her..

Looking forward for any suggestions guys

[Terry]

Or should I pursue my goals first before I approach her?

Hi friend,

If you want to pursue your career first then come back later to approach her, just know that you aren't the only guy that have eye for her.

I can assure you that she won't be available then or might not even have time for you like she does now.

Let me tell you, having a girl around isn't going to stop your career as long as you have the right one.

Now, I want to challenge you to approach her now before she is gone for good.

Good luck!

[Barry]

Here's my candid advice, go for her now or you might kick yourself hard later.

If she gets to love you as time goes on, then she will join you to achieve your dream career.

[Rob]

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