She got fired because of me. What can I do?

[customer101]

I’ve been going to this foreign massage parlor that is owned by a Colombian and employs Colombian women and men. For the handful of times I’ve been there, this masseuse is usually assigned to me. Whenever I’m her client, we sometimes have some small talk about a few vague things on what’s going on with our lives. Well, I’ve come to really enjoy talking with her and look forward to getting massaged by her.

Last Friday, I kinda messed things up by unintentionally admitting that I feel attracted to her. I’ve never been a straightforward woman when it comes to romantic feelings, but it just felt right, you know? To my surprise, she told me she feels the same way, but that they are not allowed to date their clients, so she can’t do anything.

I told her that I would go see another masseuse for my weekly massages instead and we ended up kissing. It was at that precise moment that her boss walked in and saw us. She yelled at her in their native language and fired her in front of everyone. I feel so bad about what happened. What can I do?

[bunnyhabit]

she knew the rules and jumped over her bosses rules, she is out of luck at agency. you can offer some comp to her since you were an accomplice to her getting the dump. i assume she is pissed with you as well as boss

[Sammy]

Since you made her lost her job, then it's best to date her. You have strong feelings for her, so it's a good idea to start a relationship with her now. This will make her feel better now that she has lost her job.

[customer101]

she knew the rules and jumped over her bosses rules, she is out of luck at agency. you can offer some comp to her since you were an accomplice to her getting the dump. i assume she is pissed with you as well as boss

On the contrary, she was more upset with herself. We're currently going out now and I've been helping her find new jobs. At the same time, I'm thinking of heading over to her old work place to talk to her manager. Maybe explain what really happened and how it was also partly my fault. What do you think, is this a good idea?

[customer101]

Since you made her lost her job, then it's best to date her. You have strong feelings for her, so it's a good idea to start a relationship with her now. This will make her feel better now that she has lost her job.

We are dating right now I'm helping her find a new job and I'm thinking of speaking with her old boss too, just to clear things up and maybe get her her job back if it's possible.