Want my ex back

[Sam08]

Hi. I m Sam and i was in relationship from last 4 years and every thing was going good in our relationship. But one day she called me and tell that she started feeling for someone else.. And she will not marry me and don't want to continue our relationship.. I tried lot to convince her. But she stood on her words. She also told me that it's not my fault.. But she cannot come back ...so plz help me guys.. I want her back.. I didn't done any thing wrong but she done this to me

[Olivia]

Your natural instinct is going to kick in when you want to get your ex girlfriend back from another man and this typically leads to a lot of crying, begging and drama. Most men have no problem badmouthing their ex's new boyfriend. If you do this to your ex girlfriend she's going to feel even more distant from you. If you try and convince her that he has a huge array of unflattering qualities, she's only going to see that you are the one who is immature and selfish. That type of behavior may actually backfire on you and make her feel closer to him because she'll feel the need to defend him to you.

A much more effective approach to get your ex girlfriend back from another man is to accept it. When a woman starts up with a new guy after breaking up with her boyfriend she expects her ex to fly off the handle. If he instead acts mature and accepts that she's moved on, it changes how she views him. You want her to feel that you want what's best for her. If you can do that, you stand a much better chance of getting her back.

The final thing you have to do is establish yourself as a good friend to her. Women love staying friends with their exes after the relationship ends. Take advantage of this and use it to maintain close contact with her. Do it in non-threatening way so she doesn't feel as though you are trying to reestablish a romance. Lend her a shoulder when she needs it, but make sure she understands that you're only her friend. Once you do this, and her new relationship ends, she'll turn to you to pick up the pieces and that's when you can start rebuilding the closeness that you two once shared.

[Sam08]

olivia thanks for your response..but i m totally confused..because she done this to me..and last when we talked she was soo rude to me. then after few days she texted me and call me but i didnt pick up..then she requested me to talk to her atleast once.then i talked to her.she was saying that i am sorry for being rude and all.she said that she is rude me because she thuaght if she was rude it will be easy for me to move on..then after that we never talked..i dont know but after this all i still want her.i love her so much..can you tell me waht should i do to get her back..she is quite away from me(long distance)..plzzz helppp

[Michael]

Before setting out to get her back, you need to do a little bit of self evaluation. Do you want your ex girlfriend back because you were used to a routine or do you truly love her and want to be with her forever? Sometimes men fall in to the habit of becoming too dependent on their girlfriend, only to be stuck at a standstill in life when the relationship ends.

After you've done your self evaluation, you may have determined that your reasons for wanting to get your ex girlfriend back fast were for reasons of love. If that is the case, then there is still home for you.

Having something special with another person does not happen very often, and may never repeat itself again. If this girl is the love of your life, you need to make a very strong attempt to get her back. Don't let her pass you by and move on to someone else, if you think she is the one, you need to find a way to get your ex girlfriend back fast.

One thing you need to keep in mind before you do anything drastic, is that your emotions are probably out of whack right now. Your mind is probably racing and you feel confident one minute and down in the dumps the next. Take a reality check before you do anything. Over emoting will only scare her away and will not help you get your ex girlfriend back.

There are many methods you may take to get your ex girlfriend back fast. Your first mission is to decide which method you'd like to use. The first method comes from your heart. Write her a letter, song, poem, anything! Or, simply use your voice and let her know what you feel.

It may be that you did not express yourself enough in your relationship. This is a possible reason that she left you. Sometimes you are lucky and all it takes to get your ex girlfriend back fast is a demonstration of true love and intimate feelings.

Let her know that you're the one who screwed up, and that you'll do better. Now is not the time to be stubborn and hang on to past grudges. You need to do all that is in your power to get her back. Drudging up the past will only turn her off more.

Some people use a method that is a lot more risky. Going on a date with another woman who is also very attractive may make her feel jealous. She may realize that she never should have left you in the first place.

Be careful! Before using this method you need to take stock of your ex girlfriend's personality. Would seeing you with another hot girl turn her off forever, or would it bring her running into your arms? This is something you'll have to judge for yourself.

Another method that may work well is giving her some time and space. Sometimes all it takes to get your ex girlfriend back fast is some time apart. The feelings of resentment will melt away and the remembrances of love will float to the top.

[Sam08]

Michael thanks for your response..but i m totally confused..because she done this to me..and last when we talked she was so rude to me. then after few days she texted me and call me but i didnt pick up..then she requested me to talk to her atleast once.then i talked to her.she was saying that i am sorry for being rude and all.she said that she is rude me because she thought if she will rude it will be easy for me to move on..then after that we never talked..i dont know but after this all i still want her.i love her so much..can you tell me what should i do to get her back..she is quite away from me(long distance)..plzzz helppp