I want my ex bf back it's my fault he left

[Maleryshaee]

Me and my ex wereally dating for about 5 months and I cheated on him with someone but it was only a friend with benefit type thing anyways my man left me and I need a way to maybe get him back I love him to death in every way possible

[Brett]

You may have your work cut out for you because cheating is one of the hardest situations to fix. Cheating betrays the other person's trust so you need to take extra care. To know how to get your boyfriend back after cheating, here are 3 ways to help redeem yourself.

Allow Him to Vent His Anger

His first reactions would be hurt and anger, he'll be angry at you and at the guy. This is natural so don't fight him on it. Let him vent out his anger, don't try to calm him down and reassure him that everything will be alright. This will only add to his rage so for the moment, it's best if you don't interfere.

You need to accept the breakup as well and unfortunately, there's nothing you can do about it. Saving the relationship now would be useless, so it's better to try to fix things later after he's calmed down. Don't fight him in his decision to break up and try to understand what he's going through right now.

One Last Apology

If your boyfriend wants to have time and space to cool off, then you need to give it to him. Before you walk away from him, give him one last heartfelt apology. It doesn't have to be over-dramatic; no tears and no begging for his forgiveness either. Just make it simple and sincere, let him know that this is your mistake and you accept it, then tell him you'll never do it again.

Trust will take time to rebuild, but a genuine apology can make that possible for you. Also, if he sees you struggling with your guilt and being truly sorry for what you did, then he'll feel bad for you and believe you're really sorry for your mistake.

Step Back and Give Him His Space

One of the best tips on how to get your boyfriend back after cheating is to step back and give him space. Because of your guilt you'll feel restless and you would want to keep in touch with him. But you can't because he wants to be alone, and if you want to win back the love of your life, you need to steer clear of him.

Your man needs time to accept what has happened and to get over his anger, so don't provoke him even more. The best you can do is to try not to let negative thoughts race in your mind. Learn to be patient and positive and remember that it's possible he doesn't want to lose you either. He just wants time to cope with his feelings.

[Kate]

Start by cutting off all contacts with the other guy and if possible, blacklist his phone number from the list of contacts. Be bold enough to tell him never to call you again. You must be willing to let go of some of your privacy at this time to assure your boyfriend that you have cut of all contacts with every other man and you are no longer cheating on him.

Learn to adjust your attitude from today to expect the best from your relationship. Do not dwell on the negative aspects of your cheating and you will be able to easily win your boyfriend back.

Accept responsibility for your actions and apologize. Let him know that you will not cheat on him again in words and deeds. This is not the time to waste your energy begging for forgiveness. This is the time to be calm and calculative and strategize on the best way to win back his love.