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does anyone know anything about dreams about ex partners. 4 years on, and if I push it away during the day, I'm dreaming about it at night. Very distressing...
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When you keep dreaming about your ex boyfriend, this means that the unconscious mind which produces your dreams is trying to give you a lesson by providing a dream as an example.
You could be looking for someone who has the same personality as the person you used to love before, but who was not the ideal partner for you. This means that you will have a relationship with someone who will simply repeat the mistakes of your ex boyfriend.
For example, if you tend to like very handsome men or women, you will certainly have many deceptions because they are too vain and selfish. You have to look for someone who will respect you, instead of cheating on you like your ex.
You could also be looking for a partner who will feed your complexes and give you a feeling of superiority and safety. This means that you are looking for a doctor or a parent, and not for a man or woman with whom you will be an equal partner in the relationship. You are looking for an authority figure.
If you see in a dream a boyfriend you had a long time ago, this happens because the unconscious mind is reminding you about the unfortunate circumstances involving that previous relationship. Your dream is warning you that you are about to get involved with someone that looks like your previous mate and won't make you happy.
However, if you have separated recently, chances are that you are still in love with your old boyfriend. In this case, you keep dreaming about him because the unconscious mind is showing you that you have not yet overcome your feelings associated with the separation.
These dreams work like warnings; they don't let you fool yourself in believing that you got rid of the feelings you have for your old partner. They are telling you that you are still vulnerable to accepting a reconciliation.
If you had a bad relationship, you should stay far away from your old partner. You have to stop thinking about getting back together. Insisting on continuing a problematic relationship is a very silly mistake; you can only suffer if you stay with the wrong person.
There are cases in which the dreams about your ex boyfriend are trying to show you that there are many positive aspects in their personality that you should observe, because your ex could make you happy.
You will see dreams indicating that you must pay attention to the personality of your old partner in case you will unfairly despise him.
You may have dreams about your old partner, if you have left him because you felt attracted to someone else who will only make you suffer. In this case, the unconscious mind will be sending you dream messages that your ex is the right person for you and not the man or woman you feel attracted to. This is an attraction that will disappear once you understand who they really are.
Each case is different...
You should learn how to translate your dreams according to the scientific method of dream interpretation to find out which exactly is your case, and then you must follow the unconscious guidance with precision.
The unconscious mind will help you find happiness with the right person instead of repeating old mistakes, or instead of losing your perfect match because you are being superficial in your search for the right mate and your efforts are futile.
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Dreaming of an ex is quite common and even considered very normal but many people wake up feeling quite disturbed about why their ex appeared in their dreams. Dreaming about an ex can have many different reasons and in this article we explore the meanings behind several examples of having an ex appear in your dreams.
The first dream about an ex involves the dream of getting back together. Now many people will assume that dreaming of getting back together with an ex means that deep down they really want to get back together with their ex but it doesn't actually mean that at all. Instead it means that someone currently in your life is bringing about similar feelings you had in your previous relationship.
These could be good feelings like remembering good times and experiences you had with your ex partner and that you are feeling happiness once again with your current partner. Alternatively the new partner could be bringing up bitter feelings you had and it is a way of your subconscious reminding you to avoid the bad behaviors you have in the previous relationship in order to prevent the same negative things from happening.
If you simply have a dream where you see your ex-husband/ex-wife, in particular; this could be interpreted as you are finding yourself in some sort of situation that you really do not want to be in. It could even mean that you are involved in an experience or another relationship that is making you feel very unhappy. If you happen to dream that you are together as if the relationship never ended it can mean that you repeating the same patterns from your old relationship into your current relationship. Essentially; you are making the same exact mistakes you had before and then reacting the exact same way once again.
If you happen to dream that your ex has gone missing then this could mean that you miss some part of your previous relationship but doesn't necessarily mean you miss the person. This is a rather healthy dream too because it also suggests you have moved on with your life. Another reason for dreaming an ex is missing is by taking the pun of your ex "missed his/her opportunity" to be happy with you and now it is too late.
Another very healthy dream about the ex is dreaming that he/she has died. Not to suggest that you can kill your ex or that you wish harm to them but that it actually means you feel your ex is dead to you now. It is a metaphor for how you have let go of your past relationship and that you are fully ready to move on and give your love wholeheartedly to another relationship.
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