relationship with ex and daughter

[pablo]

Hi,
I would like to know some opinions regarding a new relationship and an ex. I am in a new relationship and she wants me to have zero contact with my ex. I have a daughtet of 21 who is living with her Mom and my ex has been on chemo for 3 years where I have been supporting her financially and emotionally. Since we split we have always had a good relationship... I think think this is just a mature way of doing things.
Now in my new relationship I have some problems regarding the so called package I have brought to our relationship. She is single(never been married and no children), so as she says no package from her side. She is a muslim girl and wants me to convert in order to get married ( I am prepared to do it), but in order to continue she will not allow me:
-to speak with my daughter on the phone, whatsapp etc ( I live 4000km apart.
-zero contact with my ex ( i agree it can be very limited but not zero)
-reduce the amount of money I am sending to my daughter( she is in university) as according to her it should be invested in us.
- sell my actual apartment and buy a new one for me and her as she doesn’t want to stay in the one that I stayed with my ex, even tho we are living in another country and it is 4000km away.
As I said I am prepared to convert, but I think it is ridiculous that I am not free to talk to my daughter when I want to and not even speak to my ex especially seeing her sickness.
I would like to have some ladies opinions here as I think they would be more realistic if they were in my actual partners shoes right now.

[Paul]

It might be okay if she says you should contact your ex, but her not wanting you to contact your daughter is completely wrong. I will strongly advice you don't get married to such a lady.

[Sandra]

I won't advice you get married to this woman, her demands are just too much. The fact that she wants you not to speak to your daughter on the phone is real wickedness. I don't think she will be a good wife to you either.