Help!!! He started seeing someone?!

[Laquisha]

Hello there again,
I need help!!!

So ive been trying to win back the guy i dated.
We didnt go out that long but i really do like him and see alot of potential in this guy. Yet, he broke things off saying he doesnt see us being a good fit in terms of dating.
I backed off and gave it space. We started talking again and today he told me that he started seeing someone and they have been hitting it off.

What am i suppose to do now?

I need some advice.
Thank you in advance.

[hellosaggy]

Move on. He's trying to be nice by telling you indirectly he never was really interested. Its hard to hear, especially when you put in your mind you love him, but he doesn't love you back, He's hoping with him seeing someone else, you would just try to remain friendly.

[Laquisha]

The thing is its really hard to believe that he wasnt interested because of how invested he was while we were seeing eachother. And i havent ever felt that kind of connection with someoneelse before and thats what makes it hard to move on.

[Anthony]

Your boyfriend holding someone else's hands, laughing at everything she says, and looking at her like he used to look at you. You lose all hope of getting him back. Well, don't just give up! You can still get the love of your life back even if he already has a new girl in his arms. It's never too late.

Know Your Edge

Yes, he may be seeing someone else. But remember that you know him better than the girl. How long have they been together? A week? A month? She probably has no idea yet of what his favourite foods are. This is your edge. Knowing his strengths and weakest points. Use this to your advantage. One of the best ways to show him that you're the one for him is to remain cool and confident despite what happened. This will stir up his interest and curiosity and you will keep on crossing his mind.

Pamper Yourself

Now is not the time to feel sorry for yourself. The best you can do is to make sure that you look lovelier, sexier, and hotter than that other woman so when you get a chance to bump into each other, he'll regret what he did. Make him feel that's it's his loss, not yours. Act normally. Talk to him. Talk to the girl. You can even try to be friends with her. It's always good to know that you have some edge over her.

Keep Your Communication Open

Don't be indifferent when you see him. You did have some good times together. Don't bring up mistakes in the past. Move on and focus in getting him back. Talk like you are old friends. You'll surely meet him somewhere so plan your strategy well. Don't be too excited when you see him. Act as normally as you can. Don't sound too eager, either. Keep him interested and fascinated with your transformation.

Tell Him How You Feel

When you think you found the right time, don't hesitate in telling him what you feel about him and your relationship. You can tell him that you are happy now, but would be happier if the two of you got together. Make him feel appreciated. Tell him that you never really got over him and still love him like crazy. Say these to him without sounding too desperate and pathetic. Do not be afraid of the other woman. You and your ex have something that they will never have.

[Ella]

First of all, there is no need for you to explain anything to anyone. It is your life and your private concern and has nothing to do with anyone else at all. However, there are a few things to consider before you try to get your boyfriend back.

It does no mean to say that because he dumped you that you can't get him back, but you need to establish when he started seeing this other woman. Of course you can't talk to your ex about this right now - he will probably not want to talk to you anyway.

So, speak to your friends and find out whatever you need to know from them. Ask them if he was with this woman before or after you broke up. This is very important to know, as it will help you to decide whether you want to get your boyfriend back or not.

If your friends say that he only met her after the break up, then there is a good chance that you will be able to get your boyfriend back. The reason for this is because this new relationship that he is in is probably a rebound relationship.

In other words, this new woman in his life is simply someone for him to lean on while he is getting over the break up. It I a known fact that these types of relationships don't last for very long - as soon as your ex is over your break up, things will swing your way again. He will start thinking about you more and more and eventually decide that he wants you back in his life.

Of course, if you hear that he met this woman during your relationship, it means that he was likely cheating on you. Although it is still possible for you to get your boyfriend back in this case, seeing that he was cheating on you, do you really want him back in your life?

[ElizabethKovar]

Move on, that is the best thing you can do.