Was I wrong to be offended

[Angiepacechi]

Recently one of my best friends started hanging out with a woman that my ex cheated on me with. I didn't have a problem with him befriending her because I thought he was interested in dating her. Turns out my ex had a get together that I wasn't invited to but he invited her. I guess when she mentioned that she was still having sex with my ex he decided to invite my ex over to his house as well so that him and her could hook up. I was deeply hurt and felt betrayed by friend.

My friend didn't understand because he said well the two of you aren't together anymore so what's the big deal. I introduced my friend to my ex and he'd only hung out with him when I was around. He knew how I felt about him cheating on me with with woman. It's one of the reasons him and I broke up and that was only 2 months ago. Me and my friend had a big falling out about it because he told me I was being stupid for being upset. So now, we aren't speaking. All of my friend tell me that I had a right to feel the way that I did and he was being insensitive and selfish. Was I wrong to be offended by this?

When I spoke to my ex about I told him that I'd like it if he kept his distance from me for now and that my feelings were still hurt by the situation. It said that I wasn't being fair but said OK. How was I not being fair?

[Dennis]

I understand what you are going through at the moment. The fact is that you have the right to be angry with your friend over what he did. He simply betrayed you for hooking your ex with a woman he cheated on you with you. He doesn't deserve to be friends with you.

[Mabel]

He didn't act as a friend but as an enemy. However, I will advice you let go of what he did to you, and get in talking terms with him. While you remain friends with him, I will advice you keep him at a distance because he is capable of hurting you even more in the future.