We've been dating for about a year now but I have moved to another country because of work and theres no way we can move together. I still plan on travelling to see her every once in a while but she feels like the relationship wouldn't work anymore.
Before we started dating, she had a history of sleeping around with multiple guys for money and drugs and i just happened to be one of those guys she fell in love with. throughout the relationship, that was still a problem, she would sometimes go sleep with other people for weed and money and i would find out after a while. This is the major reason we can't keep going. I believe she loves me, the only problem is she loves her weed way more and she is a drug addict.
I have decided to look past all that and just want the best for her in life right now but she plans to still go around sleeping with people after were done because she doesn't think she can cope and thats the best solution. All she says is she would want company and loads of sex as its the only way she would be able to get through it. All I want is to be able to show her she's worth more than she thinks and thats not the path she needs to take. She has already made up her mind and already talking to people about hooking up as soon as I'm gone.
I would like some advice on what i could do to change her mindset or do i just leave her to do whatever the fuck she wants. I don't her not valuing herself enough buy going out to sleep with whoever she can because i know that wouldn't help anything. All i want to do is help her.
Before we started dating, she had a history of sleeping around with multiple guys for money and drugs and i just happened to be one of those guys she fell in love with. throughout the relationship, that was still a problem, she would sometimes go sleep with other people for weed and money and i would find out after a while. This is the major reason we can't keep going. I believe she loves me, the only problem is she loves her weed way more and she is a drug addict.
I have decided to look past all that and just want the best for her in life right now but she plans to still go around sleeping with people after were done because she doesn't think she can cope and thats the best solution. All she says is she would want company and loads of sex as its the only way she would be able to get through it. All I want is to be able to show her she's worth more than she thinks and thats not the path she needs to take. She has already made up her mind and already talking to people about hooking up as soon as I'm gone.
I would like some advice on what i could do to change her mindset or do i just leave her to do whatever the fuck she wants. I don't her not valuing herself enough buy going out to sleep with whoever she can because i know that wouldn't help anything. All i want to do is help her.
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