Divorced with 2 kids living with boyfriend who has 3 kids of his own

[Borabora]

It’s a very long story but will try to keep it short
so Iam divorce with 2 boys I live with my boyfriend n now I feel the more Iam getting to know him I hate him more now !!! He never respects my words ! I clearly told him before we got together to live under one roof that your kids won’t come home he was the one who said n agreed to it and then put it this way whatever in the beginning of the relationship he said was all lie kids come home every 2 weeks for the weekend daily life stops when they come life goes back to been stressful ,I work full time , I take care of my own kids n my ex !! My boyfriend lives in the same home he doesn’t help with nothing !!

will never clean living room, never sweep,never think of ordering or making something if Ian late of work , does I my his Laundry, never cleans washroom uses it daily never throws garbage away from the washroom , now come on after all this it’s heart breaking to see. A man who only knows himself , I want to get out of this relationship told him million times he doesn’t take me serious at all !! My dad is very old 90 I take care of him so if I go in the evening to sit at his place they live 5 mind away he text me ‘ fucken whole day staying together not enough, that you have to go again’who is he to say that to me!!!

[Gray]

I can see that you are in a messy relationship. You deserve the best, so if you aren't comfortable with with the relationship, just walk away from it.

[Gloria]

I clearly told him before we got together to live under one roof that your kids won’t come home he was the one who said n agreed to it and then put it this way whatever in the beginning of the relationship he said was all lie kids come home every 2 weeks for the weekend

The fact is that, you can't really stop his children from coming to visit their dad regardless of the agreement you both had before the relationship began. Since you already knew he had 3 kids, you should definitely expect them to come around. However, if you aren't happy in your relationship, it's not best to leave the relationship but rather consider ways to amend it.

[Zinok]

It's not really fair of you to ask him to not see his children for you. How would you feel if the roles were reversed and he said your kids couldn't come home to see you?

The fact he doesn't help out around the house at all isn't okay though. If you've tried talking to him about it, and genuinely feel like you're beginning to hate him, you should look for your own place.