We've been in a relationship for about three months, he's a Japanese who's working in Malaysia, Kuala Lumpur. While I'm in Penang, We knew each other via a dating app, and then we met up. He flew to Penang to visit me and we had the instant connection, we kissed and hugged. It feels so comfortable being with him . I like him and he liked me too. But this is just the first time we meet so I didn't ask for much about how things go after. Then we still text after he back to Kl. I was waiting for his message everyday. And yes he will text only when he's free. He does not like to use phone. So he will reply only when he's free , probably twice or once a day. Everybody has their communication style. He's like this when I know him. Then there's second time we meet because he said it has been a while since we met each other, he's wondering whether he can come to Penang . I feel so happy and we met up again. And then I asked whether to have a relationship with him. He said yes. Then we were together.
Things were ok just that I always feel not enough from him, I know he will find me when he's free , I told him that I was insecure and i feel distant when you didn't text. He said no need to feel distant, and that console my heart. And we plan for a trip to Singapore , it was amazing. We had fun and laughed.
Then after that he's busy with work and already been one month plus since we last seen each other. So I constantly asked him whether when we can meet when he's sick and I felt angry and said some sarcastic word to him because he had forgotten about when to meet. Then he asked me to pace down... and then there's three days we didn't contact , I was very anxious and then I texted him and asked him how are you doing and I apologized for my behavior. He didn't respond so I called. He didn't picked up but text me and said that he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. Because he felt burden.
Things were ok just that I always feel not enough from him, I know he will find me when he's free , I told him that I was insecure and i feel distant when you didn't text. He said no need to feel distant, and that console my heart. And we plan for a trip to Singapore , it was amazing. We had fun and laughed.
Then after that he's busy with work and already been one month plus since we last seen each other. So I constantly asked him whether when we can meet when he's sick and I felt angry and said some sarcastic word to him because he had forgotten about when to meet. Then he asked me to pace down... and then there's three days we didn't contact , I was very anxious and then I texted him and asked him how are you doing and I apologized for my behavior. He didn't respond so I called. He didn't picked up but text me and said that he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. Because he felt burden.
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