How to help my broken hearted brother

[vinnyV35]

My brother recently got off a terribly toxic relationship with his girlfriend. She was super clingy and would threaten him with blackmails and rants if things don’t go her way. What I want for my big bro right now is for him to find another woman under his own terms and let him let loose. This is the least he deserves after being with that pain in the ass for almost 7 years. He needs to experience and explore more options and widen his dating circle. I was thinking of letting him join an international dating social event for him to get away for a mini vacation all the while interacting with ladies abroad. My friend actually suggested this to me since these types of things are gaining popularity. Plus, I won’t have to worry about his itinerary for his trip since there will be an agency who will be taking care of him on my behalf. Any advice on this before I sign him up?

[Victoria]

You have a good idea to make him happy again. So go ahead with your plans, I'm sure he would love it.

[Anthony]

Moving on is always easier said than done, when something so familiar to you and has been with you for the longest time, it always so painful to part with it and the fear of separation is so difficult. You are left on your own to deal with all of it. Here are a few steps on how to mend a broken heart:

Let it just take over you.

Sometimes the best way for you to get over something is when you go through it. If you feel like crying, just go ahead and cry. Go through boxes of Kleenex, play every heart breaking love song you know, watch hours and hours of sad movies, binge on ice cream and chocolate. You may go through phases of sadness, anger and at some point you will beg to have another shot at the relationship once again. To let yourself heal, you must just let yourself go.

Get busy

You may have heard this many times, but it is one of the ways n how to heal a broken heart. You keep yourself occupied. You surround yourself with the people you love, try new things with them and discover the things that you could have been doing in the first place, but there was someone before this who kept you from doing these things.

Pro's and Con's

Sometimes listing the good and bad things that came out from a failed relationship is how you should mend a broken heart. Looking back at your experience you will find the reasons where it went and how much you have grown from it. Remember, what doesn't kill will make you stronger.

Let yourself heal

Allow yourself room to breathe, getting into another relationship after a break-up is never really a good way to let yourself heal. Give yourself some time and allow yourself to get back in no fighting form so to speak. Find yourself again, sometimes after a break-up we are still picking up pieces of our self. Compose yourself and regain your momentum.

Do not lose hope

When you gone through something so painful, we always question ourselves and always blame ourselves for it. Everyone goes through a break-up at one point in their lives. We just handle pain differently. Just because this happened to you, whether you were left for someone else or it just didn't work out, always give yourself another chance. Never lose hope and have faith that there is someone out there waiting for you.

People handle pain differently from one another, we always go through the same process of finding how to mend a broken heart and finding the guide that will help get through painful break-ups. One thing that is important, regardless of the reason why this happened to you, remember that if you want to forget you must learn to forgive. Don't dwell on the past anymore as it won't do anything to help you move on. It takes time but eventually, you will achieve healing if you are just open to it.

[vinnyV35]

Moving on is always easier said than done, when something so familiar to you and has been with you for the longest time, it always so painful to part with it and the fear of separation is so difficult. You are left on your own to deal with all of it. Here are a few steps on how to mend a broken heart:

Let it just take over you.

Sometimes the best way for you to get over something is when you go through it. If you feel like crying, just go ahead and cry. Go through boxes of Kleenex, play every heart breaking love song you know, watch hours and hours of sad movies, binge on ice cream and chocolate. You may go through phases of sadness, anger and at some point you will beg to have another shot at the relationship once again. To let yourself heal, you must just let yourself go.

Get busy

You may have heard this many times, but it is one of the ways n how to heal a broken heart. You keep yourself occupied. You surround yourself with the people you love, try new things with them and discover the things that you could have been doing in the first place, but there was someone before this who kept you from doing these things.

Pro's and Con's

Sometimes listing the good and bad things that came out from a failed relationship is how you should mend a broken heart. Looking back at your experience you will find the reasons where it went and how much you have grown from it. Remember, what doesn't kill will make you stronger.

Let yourself heal

Allow yourself room to breathe, getting into another relationship after a break-up is never really a good way to let yourself heal. Give yourself some time and allow yourself to get back in no fighting form so to speak. Find yourself again, sometimes after a break-up we are still picking up pieces of our self. Compose yourself and regain your momentum.

Do not lose hope

When you gone through something so painful, we always question ourselves and always blame ourselves for it. Everyone goes through a break-up at one point in their lives. We just handle pain differently. Just because this happened to you, whether you were left for someone else or it just didn't work out, always give yourself another chance. Never lose hope and have faith that there is someone out there waiting for you.

People handle pain differently from one another, we always go through the same process of finding how to mend a broken heart and finding the guide that will help get through painful break-ups. One thing that is important, regardless of the reason why this happened to you, remember that if you want to forget you must learn to forgive. Don't dwell on the past anymore as it won't do anything to help you move on. It takes time but eventually, you will achieve healing if you are just open to it.

wow this is really thorough. I'll copy and send this to my brother. This could help him cope up.

[bunnyhabit]

how about introducing him to some of your girlfriends? easiest cure to get over last lover is a new love. this way you can find good girl match for him so don't get involved in another bad relationship