Ex husband still sends me gifts

[lyzaphoenix7]

It has been a yr and a half since our break-up. It was not on good terms since he cheated on me with a common friend, and smeared me to his friends and family to preserve his image. He still emails me (i kept my email open for bills and stuff) every now and then esp on special occasions like during my bday and christmas with "i miss you", "you're still the one, "im hurting too" blah blah but I never replied bec of his inconsistencies; I need the time to heal. He sent me gifts and cash too and he had it delivered to my place but I never used it; just stored it in a box in my closet. It is just not the same anymore, and returning it seems immature. Why does he still continue communicating with me and giving me presents even if he is now with this woman?

[Scot]

He obviously still have feelings for you, hence he still sends you gifts. However, I'll advice you don't make any move and allow him do all the work to get you back, if he really wants you back.

[Anthonia]

There are two reasons why he still sends you gift and emails you occasionally:

1. He still loves you.

2. He feels guilty for hurting you, hence trying to console you and make you happy.

So, be careful not to raise your hope that he will come back. I will advice you move on and forget about him.