Ex calls me every night at 10-12 pm?

[Dardoch]

My ex and I broke up 5 months ago. I was the one who got dumped for numerous reasons: kind of cheated on her by kissing another girl in a club, by being too clingy, needy, emotional the last 2 weeks before the breakup etc. Pretty much deserved it. So long story short, she basically started calling me every night at like 10-12pm the last week or two. The first converstation we had was basically just me apologizing for being a moron before our breakup occured and told her that i fully understand now why she dumped me. She's been continuing to call me every night since then and we've just been having a really nice, fun phone conversations. My question is, why has she been calling me late at nite? She didn't mention what her real intentions are. I just don't want to seem clingy or needy again. I know she doesn't have a boyfriend and isn't activly searching for one, but I do want to be with her again since i still love her. It's really weird to me that she only calls me at like 10-12 pm. I know she usually finishes work at like 9pm most of the days but still.. By the way, she also called me last night yesterday but i had to hang up since i was really busy and told her that i would call her back the next day. However, she replied with: "don't - i will call you tomorrow myself when i'm not busy". She sounded kind of mad.. i'm not even sure.. Opinions? Have you called your ex boyfriend late at night and if so, why do you do it?

[Clay]

This show that she still have feeling for you and want you back. The fact that she call you at night makes it even more glaring the she is still into you.

[Sofia]

Millions of men and women right now across the world are in a "my ex girlfriend keeps calling me" situation. Because of this some of us are annoyed, some of us are happy, and some of us are empowered because we have an ex wanting to get back together with us. What we need to realize is how important it is that we try to get her back in our arms because she wants to be in our arms again.

A lot of men and women just let go and move on to someone new after the break ups they go through. You see we tend to believe that the break up is a defining line that separates two people forever. Some of us never even see our ex again after we break up with them which is shocking.

Its great that you're in a "my ex girlfriend keeps calling me" situation because at least this means you can get the person you loved and lost back in your arms. Most of the time its the guy harassing and pressuring his ex into getting back together with him.

We spend years and months with our partners in relationships. During that time we build memories with them, trust and bonds that are impossible to forget and break. If you think you could share your life with her than do whatever it takes to get her back in her life, and if you're in this type of situation it shouldn't be hard making that happen because she's the one who wants to talk to you.

For whichever of the hundreds of reasons why your break up happened, to get back together what needs to happen is change. The both of you need to have the ability to change and be able to show your positive steps toward change to each other if getting back together is ever going to happen.

Aside from infidelity, lack of change in a relationship is the biggest reason for why they fail. One partner couldn't change their attitude toward the relationship and toward their partner so the relationship ended because of it. If you want to get back together and you know she wants you back, then what you want to see from her is maturity and stability.

You want to see that she has the maturity and stability to handle the break, and also maturity in the way she tries to get you back. She should give you your space and time to think about the break up, think about you, and the reasons why the break up happened. Relationships are serious and if you break up the two of you should try and fix the problems that broke that caused the break up.