Sex Ultimatum? Perimenopause?

[Sizzlincow]

She is very anxious and nervous about skipped periods. She said she cannot focus on sex if she didn't get her period. She said "no period no sex." She is nervous, I get it, fine, let's wait for her period.

Then I thought... she may be experiencing perimenopause. What if she doesn't get a period for 6 months? She said, then no sex for 6 months.

If I knew she had such a ridiculously low sex drive, I would not have dated her. We are aged 40. Did she issue a sex ultimatum?

[Rob]

I don't think she issued a sex ultimatum nor does she have a low sex drive, she is simply worried about what's happening to her body. I suggest you show support and proffer solution, this way she will know you care about her.

[Vivian]

Women are generally concerned about their periods, so it's normal for her to feel this way. She might be suspecting she is pregnant, so she is really bothered. Be supportive in whatever way you can.