I feel exhausted after break-up

[DoriBee]

Me and my boyfriend of 1 year and a half broke up AGAIN.We’ve been on and off often but we love each other like crazy.We keep breaking up because of his depression and mood changes .One day he can’ imagine his life without me and the next he goes cold.(this is what he said).Last time we broke up he said he doesn’t love me anymore but I didn’t believe him.We went 1 month NC and one day we met up to get closure .It worked well I felt really releieved that I could finally move in even though i loved him dearly.But,one week later i went for a walk with a new guy who i met on fb .Reaaallly nice guy,good-looking and kind.(I forgot to mention my ex always had this inderioirty complex maybe thats why he s despressed tbh).So we were waling and crossed paths with my ex and we greeted politely.But he texted me that night saying”Was that really you?” kind of like..”How could you ?” We agreed to meet again so we can discuss but eventually made up.He cried begging for me to take him back,promising he would do amything to keep me.He wept so badly.So everything was cool again for a month but he started acting cold again ..We had a fight over phone .He told me he pretended he was ok this whole time just to make me happy but he is miserable and doesnt feel like he has a heart anymore.I was devastated.I love him so much words cant explain so imagine my pain..my shock..We broke up again..and we havent spoken in a week since the breakup.But now I feel awful.I think of him all the time.I am trying to keep myself busy but I cant erase his face off my mind.Plus I am constantly wondering what he s doing and whether he s ok now or at least a little happy...I should hate him for everything he put me through but I love him and my heart aches because I miss him badly.What should I do now? I ve been thinkin of texting him but at the same time i am thinking he maybe wants me out of his life .How much do I have to wait till this pain goes away?They say time heals everything but it doesnt seem to work on me..it never did.The more it passes the more memories it brings .Please,help me..

[Sofia]

Being so desperately in love with a man you're no longer with. All you want is to feel yourself wrapped up in his arms again while he whispers how much he loves you. You can make that happen. Most women just don't realize that they have all the tools they need to win back the love of any ex boyfriend. It's all in the approach and the attitude. Once you understand exactly how to do it, he'll be yours again in no time flat.

Here are 3 proven breakthrough methods to get him back for good:

Act like you don't want him anymore.

This is when you're going to do your best impression of someone who is over her ex. You have to act as though you're fine with the break up and more than ready to move on. The key points to making this method work are to not get too emotional when you're around him and tell him that you're fine with the break up. Stop calling him constantly and don't send him anymore text messages. You need him to truly feel as though you're good with the way things have turned out.

Hang out with mutual friends and have fun!

If your ex hears through the grapevine that you're spending all your free time at home with a tub of ice cream crying your eyes out, he'll be glad he ended things. That's why you need to get back into the social scene. Call up some mutual friends and arrange an evening out at least once a week. Go and have a blast. If you want to add insult to injury, flirt a bit too. He'll definitely hear about what you've been doing from your friends and it will sting him when he sees that you're happy without him.

Move him into the friend zone.

Men struggle with being "just friends" to a woman they loved. If he feels even the slightest bit of attraction to you still, he's not going to want to be viewed as just your guy friend. When you do run into him or talk to him, mention that he's a great friend or tell him that it's better now that you two are platonic friends. Saying this will definitely be a shot to his male ego. In essence, you're telling him that he's good enough to be a friend but not good enough to be your romantic partner.

They say that all is fair in love and war and that certainly includes break ups too. If you have to play a few harmless games, like those listed, to win him back, do it. After all, you love him, right?

Learn exactly what you need to be doing and saying to win your ex boyfriend back. Doing the wrong thing can mean the end of the relationship forever - Learn more here!

[Malvin]

If you are trying to get over a breakup one of the most important tips that will allow you to forget about your ex boyfriend is to keep yourself occupied. A lot of times people fall into a slump right after a break up, they find themselves not being the energetic life that they once were.

Everyone needs some time and space after a bad breakup but it is not the end of the world. With the right help you will eventually move on and become happy once again, but if you want to reach that point quickly you have to begin by get over the breakup.

If you are keeping yourself occupied you should surround yourself with positive people. One way to do this is getting together with your family and friends. These are probably those most important individuals in your life around the time of the breakup you are trying to get over. Surrounding yourself with family and friends can remind you about who you are and help you to get over this breakup.

The second tip is that will help is to keep yourself occupied doing exercise. If you don't like to exercise you should try it out especially after a bad breakup. Not only will it help you feel good but it will also help you look good as well, and why not try to look good after a breakup.

The third tip is to take your time before you jump back into a new relationship, dating and going out is fine this will also help you get over a break up. Getting over a breakup can be difficult but it can be done.

Finally a word of advice: you need to learn how to get over your ex. This is the hardest thing, but it can be done.