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Hi everyone,
I will try and keep this short.
So i was seeing this guy for about 2 years. We hit it off very well. We were casual at the beginning. He used to ask me out with his friends. Initially i would refuse but after about a year i decided to hang out with his friends. i got along really well with his friends. He did act up once or twice due to jealousy. That is when things got a little serious between us.
But on our last meet up he was flirting with another girl right in front of me which i did not bother much about. Next day he texted to apologise. After a few days i decided to call it quits with him. But he refused to let go. We left it at that. And 2 days later i heard from him. He said that someone had sent his wife (yes, he was actually married) an email about the girl he was flirting with and asked if i was the one who sent it to her. I was totally and utterly confused. Long story short, I explained to him it was not me. In fact i couldn't even have the opportunity to ask him about his lies as he was playing the victim card afraid that his marriage would be destroyed. He told me to my face that he was going to deny every single bit that he ever cheated to his wife. He clearly was telling me that he did not want anything to do with me and that his family was important. Which i understood and stepped away.
He called me again after 2 weeks asking if i again sent more messages to his wife as it was sent from a profile that looked like mine. He was threatening me and i told him to get the hell out of my life and not bother me. I had not contacted him since. It has been 3 months of absolutely no contact. He had not either but he had not blocked me on facebook or whatsapp. Which also got me thinking! If he thinks I sent those messages and that I was the "OW" then why not block me and move on.
Now 3 months later, which was 2 days ago, he pops up at 5 am in the morning, texting me this "We need to talk". I saw the message much later and asked him what it was about. But there was absolutely no response from him. I had just gotten back on my feet and he comes back to screw with my mind again! I just need to know why he would ask to talk and then disappear. Does he think i am sending those messages? Is he trying to warn me in some way. I feel completely helpless being accused of something i did not do and have no way of defending myself either. I have heard from a mutual friend that the girl he was flirting with has also been receiving messages to stay away from him as they believe there is something going on between him and that girl now.
I just want to know why he would ask to talk and then disappear? Need answers to move on! It is not fair to me as I have given him all the space he deserves why can't he do the same and leave me alone!
Need opinions and advice please!
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