My boyfriend broke up with me for his baby mama help

[Sparkle1317]

Thanks for taking the time to answer my question appreciate it .
I’m completely heartbroken and devastated

[Nora]

When my boyfriend left me for someone else I felt completely rejected and confused. I thought, up to that point, that things were good between us. Realizing that he had been spending time with another woman, while seeing me, was devastating. Everyone around me told me to do the same thing. They thought I should simply forget him and move on. The problem with that plan was that I still really loved him. I knew that I could forgive him. I just needed to find a way to steal him back from her.

I knew that I had to stay calm after my boyfriend left me for someone else. Yelling, screaming or crying wasn't going to get me anything at all. If I wanted to steal him back I had to help him see that I was the right woman for him, not her. I could tell him, but he would simply disagree. Since I knew him so well it was all a matter of appealing to him on a very deep level. The way I had back when we first met.

Men seek out new relationships while still in a relationship because they aren't fulfilled. Men find fulfillment with women who make them feel better about themselves. When my boyfriend left me for someone else it was because she was making him feel that way and I wasn't. I needed to become the woman he initially fell in love with. The first step to doing that was to become his friend.

You may think it's counterproductive to strike up a friendship with a man you still love and want back. However, consider the fact that if you can reestablish yourself as someone he needs, he'll start to feel those feelings of love coming back to life. Let him confide in you. Let him vent about his new love and be there to pick up the pieces when that relationship falls apart. It will. Rebound relationships very rarely last.

[Clinton]

I will advice you move on with grace, and stop being depressed and down trodden. You will definitely find another man soon who will love and cherish you.